My husband and i have been trying to have a baby for a year now and we are having now luck. I am not sure what to do from here.
2007-02-13 13:58:26 · 17 answers · asked by Jennifer W 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
start working on adoption paperwork.
2007-02-13 14:01:54 · answer #1 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
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2007-02-13 14:42:46 · answer #2 · answered by LetMeKnow! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go to a fertility specialist. And as hard as this sounds, try not to think about getting pregnant and have fun with sex. We tried everything in the book even sexual positions that were supposed to increase fertility, to pillows under the hips to even putting my legs on the wall with pillows under my hips to not getting out of bed after sex. It took us 6 years to get pregnant. We were actually planning to adopt because we thought conceiving naturally would never be possible. That was not the only reasons of course and we would have adopted either way. Well, we got pregnant right away. I guess we just didn't realize how much stress trying was putting on both of us. Now I am 15 weeks and 6 days pregnant. We plan on adopting when our child is a little older. Either way, I would go see a fertility specialist to make sure everything is okay in both you and him. Good luck.
2007-02-13 15:57:01 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you had all of the necessary fertility tests done yet? I have friends that tried for 7 years and it turned out her husbands sperm just wasn't viable. They ended up using a sperm donor and now have twin girls that will be 3 in August. Keep at it and make sure there are no medical reasons for your inability to conceive. There are many alternatives available now. Good luck!
2007-02-13 14:04:45 · answer #4 · answered by Debbi S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and quit trying. Just enjoy spending time with each other. I've known many couples that have tried for years and when they decided to adopt once they got the baby they then were too busy taking care of the new baby to stress about trying and got pregnant.
2007-02-13 14:11:34 · answer #5 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have friends who have been through this. First, there are many hormonal and fertility treatments that work for so many people. It is very important to go to a good and reputable doctor. The key for my friends who eventually did get pregnant, was to try a stress free mind frame. Don't focus on it too much, as tough as that may be. Stressing about it or about other things for that matter, makes it much more difficult to achieve the results you really want.
2007-02-13 14:06:30 · answer #6 · answered by julie j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the doctors and get tested to see why you are not becoming pregannt I have been ttc for about 5 months with no luck so finally today I went and seen the doctor because I have irregular periods so now they are going to start helping me become pregnant so best of luck to you!!!!
2007-02-13 14:06:00 · answer #7 · answered by TM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has your well being care specialist finished a laparoscopy to be particular your tubes are not to any extent further blocked?? maximum docs will initiate fertility treatments if you're not to any extent further pregnant interior the first year of attempting, so that you'll be able to pick to ask about it. My husband and that i tried for over 6 years and welcomed our toddler the seventh year. the approach change into very discouraging, yet I discovered lots. listed the following are some issues to think about: primary cycles for you. you want them primary. do no longer try too typically because sperm count number is going down the more effective you try. Wait some days between attempting so the count number is going up. in case your husband takes warm baths, or sit down in a warm bathtub frequently...supply up. Have him positioned on boxers quite of briefs. i understand you reported he has children from previous relationship, yet issues replace through the years. yet another area of evaluate is your ideas-set. in case you imagine too troublesome, and choose it too troublesome you are able to properly be stressing your self over it. relax by potential of the approach. no matter if it really is meant to take position without intervention....it is going to. i might want to ask your well being care specialist about meds or get a second opinion from a pro altogether. sturdy success!!
2016-10-17 07:01:03 · answer #8 · answered by predmore 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing that you need to realize is that alot of people don't get pregnant during the first few months of trying. Sometimes it takes awhile. The best thing for you to do is to stop focusing all of your energy on trying so hard. Alot of woman find themselves pregnant just when they have given up. Relax and have fun.
2007-02-13 14:06:15 · answer #9 · answered by veronica c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the doctor and find out if you both can have baby
2007-02-13 14:02:59 · answer #10 · answered by Suky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both of you should go to the doctor and make sure your both able to have children...
2007-02-13 14:03:04 · answer #11 · answered by Trezdons Mommy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋