ok, so me and my boyfriend are always just like kinda mad at each other for some strange reason.and we'd ignore each other at times,and then at the end of the day,we end up saying sorry and stuff..but we really like each other alot.and tomorrow's valentine's day.and today didn't end up so good.we had a little argument and we weren't able to fix it before the day was over.and we're only 15 years old. so..it's not like a biiiiiig thing.but still.and what if he didn't get me anything for valentine's day? and i have something for him...what should i do if i show up with a bunch of stuff tomorrow and he has nothing? and what's the best solution about this whole 'always arguing thing'??please help! i'm new to boyfriends and stuff..but we've been going out for a long time.only that he's my first ever bf.
2007-02-13 13:43:42 · 5 answers · asked by ilovedotsx3 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
IF he shows up at your house, give him the present. OR if he calls ask him to come over. Otherwise save it for another special time.
2007-02-13 13:49:06 · answer #1 · answered by banananose_89117 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never really celebrated Valentine's Day but, anyway I would think the best thing ever would be just to have that someone look you in the eyes and tell you how much they love you. Gifts are materialistic yeah, they're nice to have but, it's the simple things that seem to mean alot more. If he didn't get you anything and you really really like/love him just look him in the eyes and tell him Happy Valentine's Day and as far as the arguments go wow, that could be deep are you compatible w/each other signs, astrologically? That's always a good place to start as far as what gets you both running in that direction. Like I'm a Scorpio and it wouldn't be smart to be with a Sagittarius because we're so much alike Scorpio is water Sagi is fire ....fire and water really don't go together. See what I mean? Good Luck Girlie
2007-02-13 21:55:21 · answer #2 · answered by oct_nyte_byrd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you are going through , but in a relationship, its no about whos mad at who, its about how much you guys love eachother. Your just like me, im 14 and me and my bf's relationship is like a on and off thing. He never says anything so i say sorry. I just like being a better person. If he sows up with nothing [which im sure he will], then just give him his presents and walk away,be a better person. Plus if he really doesnt give u anything and is still mad, then that shows hes a bad bf.... :/ Have a great valentines! I hope i helped you... if you need more help, you can give me an aim on BabieexAmiee
REMEMBER! BE THE BETTER PERSON IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP!
2007-02-13 22:02:20 · answer #3 · answered by LizAsAweS)mE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to fix it, is to talk about it!!! Talk about why you guys fight all of the time. I had the same problem with my gf for about 6 months!! she got really tired of it and let me have it!! We sat down and told each other everything we had to say, meaning we didn't hold any thoughts back. If you see it as always his fault, and he sees it as always your fault, try to understand him. listen to what he tells you he has a problem with, of course you are not going to like it. Then you tell him to do the same. If you guys end up getting in an arguement over that, then i don't know what to tell you. It worked for me and my girl because we didn't want to lose each other. I understood everything she told me, and i fixed the things that pissed her off. I didn't have to change my personality or anything like that, i just had to learn to understand girls and how sensitive they can be when is comes to certain topics. And then after we talked she told me, " Well, you picked me to be your girlfriend and i'm not going to change." And she hasn't.
Give it a try, and if all fails then there is no point in staying with him if all you are going to do is argue!
Give it a try, and if all fails then move on gurly
2007-02-13 22:15:56 · answer #4 · answered by Fromaggito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okaie... first of all.. being with a guy is not all about getting presents.. if ur guy is with u for the presents.. dump him..well i think u shud give it to him.. :).. maybe it'll make ur argument die a bit down cuz ur showing him how sweet and that u care about him u are and maybe tell him that its valentines day n u don't wanna fight anymore :) ....wat does it matter if u don't get presents?... a relationship's about emotional gain.. not material gain....ur guy will probably smarten up.. even if he didn't get you anything... a simple kiss from him might just make your day honey
2007-02-13 21:53:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋