And why are they always trying to make me believe they genuinely like me?
im starting to think I hate guys now even though Iam one myself.
2007-02-13 13:02:38 · 25 answers · asked by Luckyluv 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
is pure sex and no genuine love a gay thing?
2007-02-13 13:03:58 · update #1
Gee - - wish I had that problem. "Men meet me and all they want is conversation."
2007-02-13 13:44:04 · answer #1 · answered by behrmark 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not every gay man is after sex the majority are as it is the main basis of male relationships. It is easy for gay men to find sex.
However if you are into a guy ask him if you can take it easy and get to know each other before becoming intimate.
If the guy is worth while and into you and views you as more than a trick.
Its easier said than done but it might save you hating guys and causing you more pain.
Also say no if you don't fancy being another notch on the bed post.
Good luck with it. It takes time but it does happen and you should meet someone who you like and likes you back and have good sex with
2007-02-15 00:49:30 · answer #2 · answered by sak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's life sweetpea. There's a lot of sex only guy's out there.
Sometimes you meet the rare ones who care, but I think a lot of the time it's guys who are not gay, but can't attract a female so turn to gay sex for relief. I've met a few, they're real creeps !
Worst I had was a guy I met, wo seemed genuine but then wanted to call me Brenda, I asked him why... It was because the real woman he fancied but who spurned him was called... you geussed it, Brenda. What a prat ! ( I felt SO wanted just then !!)
Take the rough with the smooth sweetpea and if you do find one with an emotion.... KEEP HIM !
2007-02-14 11:37:14 · answer #3 · answered by jlb.1970@btinternet.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, it's a guy thing. Now I have met exceptions of course but you'd definitely run into that a lot as women in the heterosexual world. Now I'm not sure of the whys and wherefores (genetic? sociological?) but by what you're saying men are similar across the board.
2007-02-13 13:21:05 · answer #4 · answered by E 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
where do you meet guys, clubs? discos?, the majority are there for casual sex. Try joining a 'gay'club which has your intrests ie, outdoor activities, reading, spiritual etc., let your intrests in life lead you to sincere, intresting gay people Good luck
2007-02-13 22:26:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you mean but since guys in generally driven by mainly sex it's one of those things.
Its the same in straight relationships as well from what I've heard.
2007-02-13 21:02:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, all men are like that well 2 out of 1,000,000 aren't! But, you should maybe hold off on the sex until there's more of a bond!
2007-02-13 13:09:51 · answer #7 · answered by Maria C 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Lets all face it the homo sexual scene is pretty damn sordid. I'm not gay maybe I am and just dont know it but quite jealous of the way gay people are able to find sex anywhere they please. Hetro-sexuals are less promiscuous and therefore a little boring if you ask me.
2007-02-13 13:16:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Join the club, it's a well known fact that a man's brain isn't his commanding officer.
2007-02-14 05:23:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEHEHEH...
I think bcz we need sex than any thing these days.....noooooo i think bcz we have are sick.......noooooo it is the nature of the mankind.....nooooo human nature....sex sex sex...
well i do not know...me too when i meet a guy i just want sex with him.
2007-02-13 20:12:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isnt a gay thing is just a man thing
2007-02-13 13:07:16 · answer #11 · answered by Poppy28 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋