2007-02-13 13:02:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i'm pretty sure she already knows if she is fat. why do you need to remind her?
unless she's one of those stuck up ppl who think they're absolutely flawless when really they look like s h i t. Then you formulate a plan. Like this one: Have another friend, that the fat one doesn't know, run past her yelling out "get out of the way you fat cow!" then she'll realize she's fat.
2007-02-13 13:07:23 · answer #1 · answered by snowangels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel you need to tell your friend that she is fat. Do you really think the world isn't cruel enough to have, let her know her imperfections. Really, is your friend so blind she does not shower with herself. I am sure, your friend could do with a less hurtful commentary than. dear friend you are fat. Just to let you know, overweight & fat are not the same conintations. It would be so rude of you to tell your friend, You need to tell she is fat. How low is your own self esteem that you are trying to hurt your friend, this way. A friend might encourage a shared excercise routine, again be tactful. Don't say your fat so I think, you should exercise. Peek her interest, tell her you are thinking of getting, some type of exercise routine would she like to join you? Just so you do not have to go it alone. Be creative rather than, hurtful.
2007-02-13 13:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh trust me she knows she's fat! She probably really loves and apprechiates it that you don't criticize her for it! Alot of other people probably do insult her. When people are overweight they don't need people to remind them, they know. She is probably working on it. You could be helpful, you know say you are really looking slimer. Or something that will get her motivated. You know, not "Your fat, go on a diet!" That will break her heart. Don't hurt her. She has feelings.
2007-02-14 00:39:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that you wanna tell her puts you in two places: 1-as a friend you're suppose to accept them the way they are.no questions asked. 2-nowadays you see on the news about people being ill because they are VERY overweight, and i can see in that way you may want to protect her. but let me tell you something, she will NOT forgive you for telling her. let HER tell you what she thinks and then just support her in anyway you can.
2007-02-13 13:43:48 · answer #4 · answered by Nadia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol Hi sab those people that say dont tell her are probably fat and someone told them that they are fat ( im sorry people!!) R u talking about rose here?
2007-02-17 12:47:15 · answer #5 · answered by OOO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't. She already knows. It's really none of your business unless she wants dieting advice or something.
2007-02-13 17:17:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probally knows she's fat and if you say something to her it will make her upset so I say leave it alone.
2007-02-13 15:10:51 · answer #7 · answered by troublemakr217 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably already knows that she is not thin. if you like her as a person, who cares, if she is big. Is your friendship based on her size or her personality?????
2007-02-13 13:14:26 · answer #8 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it, it's like telling the bride she look ugly on her weeding day. am sure she got a mirror.
2007-02-13 13:37:23 · answer #9 · answered by celi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um. she probably already knows.
but why would you wanna tell her tht anyway??
2007-02-13 13:18:18 · answer #10 · answered by hehehehe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋