when your man never remembers special days? I'm not getting anything for Valentines Day. He never remembers me on my birthday or Christmas either. I feel so useless. I don't expect the world from him just to be noticed.
2007-02-13 12:43:15 · 11 answers · asked by cswint2000 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
I'm very blessed that I have someone that does remember that stuff. But it wasn't always the case. My ex never did and it hurt like hell. I'm not saying I need the world, but my fiance` has already given it to me every day. Have faith, there is someone out there that does appreciate you and will give you everything u want and more!
2007-02-13 12:56:50 · answer #1 · answered by Krissy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it hurts. I would not expect things to change either. Ask yourself this.....how long have you been together? And he can't even remember you on Christmas!!!??? I mean c'mon.....Those are all pretty big things....... he should at least remember you on Xmas...I think that is the biggest recognized holiday in America.
You need to really sit down and ask yourself if you are willing to keep putting up with this. There is no excuse for him to forget all those holidays. Even if he tried...and still did a bad job......at least he tried. But for him to not even try to make an effort.....?
You need to move on. There are so many men out there that can treat you better!!
2007-02-13 12:55:37 · answer #2 · answered by redsoxmom1979 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it can be hurtful, my hubby is usually pretty good about remembering important dates though I do have to put a hint in a week or so before, but I know that he loves me even if he is forgetful! Do you know for sure that your man cares about you even though he forgets important dates? Don't stay in a relationship where the partner could care less.
2007-02-13 12:54:04 · answer #3 · answered by LuvLucy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been married 5yrs and my hubby has Never bough me anything for any holiday. I have gotten used to it. Yes it does hurt but i have stop caring about that typ of stuff.
2007-02-13 12:48:57 · answer #4 · answered by cc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it hurts. Sounds like he doesn't respect you. My suggestion to you is to not get him anything. On his next birthday... conveniently forget. He won't like it and I bet you'll be getting a present on your next birthday. Good luck and God bless! Oh... if he continues to not acknowledge you then please move on. I can't imagine that you're happy. Happy Valentine's Day!
2007-02-13 12:47:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't bother me at all. We never get each other gifts. Not because we don't care about each other, but because we don't see the point in spending money on luxuries just because it's a holiday.
2007-02-13 12:50:33 · answer #6 · answered by Venin_Noir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, we can't always blame men for everything... I'm usually the one who forgets anniversaries. He never forgets, but he hasn't gotten me anything in a while. I've learned to not care anymore, why....I don't know, maybe cuz I don't care for him as much anymore lol.
2007-02-13 12:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by Tina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah it does and you shouldn't be with a man like dat anymore. Do you really care about yourself, stop wasting your time and get someone that trully appreciates you ok!!!!
2007-02-13 12:47:41 · answer #8 · answered by JuicyD 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aw thats so sad...sum guys are forgetful, others are just too lazy. dont feel useless, ill send u orchids!!
2007-02-13 12:51:15 · answer #9 · answered by the if in life 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well... maybe he's just trying ot surprise you... i dont think i ever went a day without thinking of getting my lady something
2007-02-13 12:51:55 · answer #10 · answered by blindedbullet 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋