2007-02-13 12:38:09 · 17 answers · asked by Ansy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thanks so much all who have answered so far.....i forgot to add that this question is for my girlfriend and yes she is going through a serperation period and her husband is seeking a divorce as he has found another woman and has moved on. She is hoping to find love again and is wondering if she ever will.
2007-02-13 22:09:19 · update #1
you search for who truly makes you happy. This happened with my mother and my father when they got divorced. They both went with different techniques. My mom, after about 5 months, began dating her best male friend (who happened to be my football coach, its weird to live with him, but he makes my mom happy so its all good). Their relationship has grown and they are very much in love, ive never seen my mom so happy, and he has been like a second father for me.
my dad did the online dating shinanigan for a while. Met a couple girls, but wound up falling in love with an old high school friend. Basically, I'm willing to bet that you will find your new love in a friend. Someone who knows you very well, accepts who you are, already knows what you've been through, and is willing to help you through it. A friend wont mind the kids, or the divorce.
I assume you mean your divorced, but your question says "married", if your married, you shouldnt be searching for a new love.
2007-02-13 12:45:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes, there are some real pickings out there for women with three kids that are married. All the REAL MEN will be all over you -- OK that's a wrong answer.
Unless you have a REAL reason for a divorce you are being crudely selfish. You want a new love. Try showing the man you have some respect and try being a selfless wife, mother, and lover. Bet you find a new love with the one you have.
2007-02-13 12:46:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Gurl, I know what U are going through. My husband and I are going to marriage counseling to check our issues.I was totally feeling out of sync with my marriage. But there were vows we made before God, and we must do whatever necessary to keep it together when there are kids involved. Think about it! don't allow your life to be ruined the grass is not always greener on the other side!
2007-02-13 12:51:23 · answer #3 · answered by Jersey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now your married? Just looked at your last question....
How do you tell someone who loves you that you do not love them anymore.......?
I was in love with my boyfriend and he cheated on me 3 times, I forgave him because i loved him even though I knew he did not love me. Now he has fallen in love with me and I only feel pity for him, I do not love him any more. He follows me around like a love sick puppy and is at my beck and call but I cant seem to love him like i once did and i have asked him to leave me alone, that we are over but he can't and won't accept it....what can i do to make him leave and not feel guilty or bad?
My how time flies....and you have 3 kids now too.
2007-02-13 12:52:36 · answer #4 · answered by oldman 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Here's the thing only because I'm a child and I've experienced it....Children HATE it when they basically get a "new daddy" they feel like they've done something wrong to make their "old, replaced daddy" go away.
2007-02-13 14:11:03 · answer #5 · answered by brown eyed gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By meeting them after the divorce with the kids in tow.
2007-02-13 12:44:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let me try understand you: You are married, then you want to let your husband, but you´re afraid to let him because you have 3 kids, isn´t it?
- If your answer is positive, you must to get better your emotional situation... I see you´re emotional depends of other peoples to grow in your life.
- First, you must to think in grow up with your babies, working, for you and for them, then the other things going to appear, slow in your life, ok?
2007-02-13 13:35:47 · answer #7 · answered by princessita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take up gardening. Plant some collard greens for hubby and some tulips for the kids. Love it.
2007-02-13 13:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're married so you shouldn't be looking for new love, if things are getting bad maybe you should go your separate ways.
2007-02-13 12:48:44 · answer #9 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming your marriage is in trouble or your splitting up???
make sure you have resolved any of those feelings of your marriage before trying to move on.....
2007-02-13 12:42:08 · answer #10 · answered by Berge 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋