it's been a while since I'm seeing a psychologist to advise me in some event going in my life ....she is a young pretty psychologist , ..she could even be as young as I am ...but, I have never once have any kind of feelign for her ...but after a while in seeing her, I am starting to feel slight feelings inside me , and starting to look at her differently ...I think I have a crush on her ...but she's married and even have a baby ...well, it's just impression ...but I don't intend to pursue anything with her ...for 2 reasons ...
1) she's married
2) she's my psy ...
but, I'm wondering sometimes why she 's always interested in seeing me eventhough there is no worry , she wants to keep session with me ...but, well, my questions are those ...Do you think she could have some feelings for me as a patient..?Do you think I should tell her? and what do you think of the fact I started to have a crush for my psy ?
2007-02-13 11:51:59 · 5 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It's very common to have these feelings toward your therapist. Yes you should tell her your feelings so that you can discuss them, reason them out and get on with your sessions focussing on why you are really seeing a therapist in the first place.
2007-02-13 11:59:48 · answer #1 · answered by KaptainKahn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a psychologist. It's her job. Your sessions pay her bills. Don't look too far into the fact that she want's to keep sessions with you.
It's the Dr. oath, all psychiatrists, and psychologists take, that says they will keep dr. patient relationships strictly professional. To break it means she looses her license.
Don't tell her about your crush.
But your crush is perfectlly natural. As you are sharing alot of yourself with her, and she is there to listen and help you though it all, and she is also your peer.
I recommend that you change psychologists, possibly an older woman ( i mean older) or a man. This will ensure that you are getting the best possible treatment without the interferance of inappropriate thoughts and feelings.
2007-02-13 20:07:24 · answer #2 · answered by Asami 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she wants to go at it like rabbits on the couch. If she is offended, just claim temporary insanity and make an offhand comment about how there is no better place than a psychologist's office for a bout of that.
2007-02-13 20:07:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you need to find out if you really like her if you don't forget it. But if you do just tell her the best thing to do is to be honest.
2007-02-13 20:01:57 · answer #4 · answered by renard_brum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know, but it sounds pretty hot. Let us know if you get in her pants.
2007-02-13 20:00:50 · answer #5 · answered by Dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋