I'm 13 and I've never had a bf. I know that 2 boys in my grade, "jack" & "pete" like me. Pete's asked me out a few times, but I said no. However, Pete's still my friend, we hang out in a group at school. Jack is in only 3 of my classes and one after school group.Pete asked me out again today, and I said maybe, I'd tell him next time I saw him. Now for the past few weeks da school's been having a flower sale for valentine's day. In pm homeroom, the only one I got was from "Secret Admirer". I thought it was from Pete, but my bff snooped around and found out it was from Jack! What do I tell Pete? I don't want to hurt any feelings. Opinions please?
2007-02-13 11:45:38 · 5 answers · asked by Off the Key of Reason 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well choose what one you like better and the one you fun with
pick the one who is the easyest to talk to
(pick the cutest) :)
2007-02-13 11:50:28 · answer #1 · answered by Sami F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you've already picked Jack. (at least it sounds that way) So the best thing to do is to tell Pete that you just want to be friends cuz if anything happened and you broke up then there is a big chance you would stop being friends. You could also tell him you don't have feelings like that for him. May or may not be a good idea. As for the rest of it..give Pete a little time before you start dating Jack so his pride isn't bruised to bad. If you start dating Jack the second you get done talking to Pete he is going to take it as a bunch of bull to spare him on your part. Which can only lead to him getting angry and possible never talking to you again.
2007-02-14 02:01:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ud have to decide hu u like more.
what i can do 4 u is tell u how each will turn out.
Pete: pete will like n be pretty good towards u. he may be somewhat desprate to get a gf, depending on how he acts. if u do chose him n he keeps hanging around him, tell him that you don't want him around all the time, but only some of the time.
Jack: jack on the other hand has a crush on you. It would quite interesting to see how he acts w/ u.
2007-02-13 12:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by Russly F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's quite simple, actually. You go out with the guy you like more.
2007-02-13 14:13:26 · answer #4 · answered by meghanhappy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*sigh* I don't know.
2007-02-13 11:54:51 · answer #5 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋