hi i am needing advice i am in what they call the waiting period to see if the embryo transfer worked. i am a nervous wreck have been fine its been a week and still have 3 more days to go. i have what they say 'felt pregnant' but this morning woke up with this strange thought im not. have been crying all day.don't know what to do husband say calm down its not good if you cry, but i feel he doesn't know what i feel he puts it down to hormones. im the last in my family to have a child i thought it wolud work it happened so easily for them.
2007-02-13 11:44:31 · 5 answers · asked by hopes4bub 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
well just reporting in i recieved news on saturday that we where not sucessful in our attepmts for our baby. we start our second round of ivf in a month and i am scared of the words i'm sorry maybe next time you are NOT PREGNANT. it has been 2 days now and the crying has lessoned but the pain is still there. returning to work which will be hard as everyone was so excited when i took leave now i will go back to work and explain to them. had some spiritual healing done which is quite cleansing they told me they sensed it was to be a little boy if only they could of told me he wasn't that strong.
2007-02-18 04:37:21 · update #1
MY sympathy and empathy go to your and your love. I too went through hell and back ttc- and fortunately i had good outcomes (after i'd had enough of chlomid,shots, ivf, went and did my own thing with a homopathic endo and after 3 months concieved the good old fasioned way) but back to you-just try and take it a day at a time. And i know all you want to do is tell the world of the news- but now that you've experienced this first hand- you know and feel what illease you;ll go through by telling the job folks of the negative factor. my advice- keep it low key- tell family and friends and leave it at- if/when your out again-there's no need to tell work (they'll probablly put it together on their own) but at least you dont have to re-do the conversations over and over. I told my whole office the first 3 cycles and like you had to go in 6 weeks later and tell them all no-it was like getting beat up- if felt worse then when the doctor told us know- there wasno opportuntiy to live and let it go- i'd get done telling one and 10 mintes later another office mate would come to me and i'd repeat it all over. thats when i decided i would only tell my boss who was to get me the time off- and let it be. when i finally became preggo- i waited until months before i told the office mates. they knew when they saw me out for the length of time- but also realized it was to be private- they hugged and welcomed me back but no questions- much easier.
take care and i will send baby dustings your way in my prayers.
2007-02-18 15:59:30 · answer #1 · answered by KATHEYCARCRASHER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you. The waiting period is the worst. At this point its out of your hands, so you'll just have to dig in and get through it. I hope things work out for you. I know one couple who has been through 2 rounds with no success, another who's been through 1 with no success, and one who will have her first next month.
2007-02-13 11:56:43 · answer #2 · answered by Heather Y 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 02:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This story sounds so familiar. My wife Mag and I are going through the same thing. She keeps a diary of the whole thing on www.myivfalternative.com click on Mag's IVF Diary.
I hope this helps a little
2007-02-14 23:25:41 · answer #4 · answered by Jeremy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear it didn't work out. I hope the next round goes better! GOOD LUCk
Ash
2007-02-18 11:14:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋