I've been friends with this person since 10th grade,and now that we are in 12 grade she changed a lot now that she lost weight she thinks she is to good for my friends and i, so she doesnt talk to us anymore because she left with some other people that me and my friends dont like, my friends and me are mad because if she didnt want to hang out with us anymore she should of had the guts to tell us that she was going to go somewhere else instead of just walking off like she did because we were always waiting for herand she would never show up. what should i do about her?
2007-02-13 11:40:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would forget her if I was you. She needed to be remind who she was before she lost weight cause I bet when she was bigger them other people didn't even want to be around her... So forget her.
2007-02-19 16:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't mind her... She'll just come back to you when she gain weight so give her more chocolates and other junk foods that can make her gain weight.. just kidding.. Don't be scared face her just tell her how you feel well maybe she might her mind and go back to you... So if i were you I'll take her even if she is mean because she's still your friend right so go for it... and if she didn't agree with you just forget her it is her lost...
2007-02-13 11:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by Jayme619 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may be the first time in your life this event has introduced itself but not the last. Good time to shed your thin skin. Look the other way, your own way. This could be what alters her life as well as yours. Pray that her path is a peaceful one and make sure yours is as well...
2007-02-13 11:45:55 · answer #3 · answered by lee f 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the type. You can keep the lines of communication open, but if she pulls away from you, there is nothing you can do. Don't go out of your way to keep the friendship alive, but don't shut the door totally either.
You deserve better than to be treated the way she is treating you.
God bless.
2007-02-13 11:45:30 · answer #4 · answered by Looking for the truth... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats jacked up you should tell her how you feel maybe shes just shocked that the people who used to not like want to hang out with her and if she doesnt agree with how you feel than she aint your real friend friends dont judge by the outside
2007-02-13 11:48:26 · answer #5 · answered by babygirlknowhowtodo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just throw her out of your life. She could be innocent, but in this case, I wouldn't give her the benifite of the doubt, doesn't seem too likely. Forget her, and move on.
2007-02-13 11:44:50 · answer #6 · answered by Crappy Haircut Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on with your life kid...don't mind her...maybe later she will realized how important you are...just keep an open line though..
2007-02-19 13:36:37 · answer #7 · answered by Andrew E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her that you dont anything to do with her and you should not think about her she is just a waste of time and you dont need that in your life.
2007-02-13 11:51:49 · answer #8 · answered by JAS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her. Don't waste your time and energy on her...she's worthless.
2007-02-13 12:16:47 · answer #9 · answered by Violation Notice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about her!!!brush her off!!!! she'll eventually come to her senses!!!!!!
2007-02-13 11:52:54 · answer #10 · answered by hot stuff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋