Been with a girl for 5 years already.. every Valentine's Day she gets me something, and very nice gifts, and I get her gifts too... well this year we've been rocky so far, so I told her jokingly "I won't have any money this year" and she laughed it off. Last night I asked, "what are you getting me?" and she said, "nothing, cuz your not getting me anything.."
Tomorrow night we both have work so we won't see each other. She goes out with her friend tonight, when I haven't seen her all weekend, only on Monday for a few minutes.
What the heck is up with this?? I've been havin some trust issues as of late but this is just getting stranger by the day
2007-02-13 11:38:48 · 12 answers · asked by jamie s 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
um...well u don't have to agree w/ me b/c this is just my advice....but if u really don't have the money to get her something or even just make her sumthing, then it isn't that big of a deal. but if she isn't getting u sumthin cuz ur not, thats a different story. she shouldn't be saying that. so if she was serious, u should talk to her about whats bothering u (ur trust issues) and that u guys need to spend more time together. especially on valentines day. but u kno, u can give a simple kiss or make ur girl dinner or sumthin even simpler w/o wastin a dime. the day is all about spendin time with her. so both of u should find time to be together.
2007-02-13 11:45:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time to reconnect with your girlfriend!!! Okay 5 years of dating you probably have a key to her house or something so once she leaves for work you go in and put a gift where she can see it and maybe a nice card with some flowers or somthing. And then call her that night and talk and make plans for a movie or something. I know you like my plan!!! You know it will work and that this desearves to be the best answer in the world!!! Good luck to ya and I hope it works out!!!
2007-02-13 11:52:33 · answer #2 · answered by soccer_crzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would at least send her something to her work tomorrow since you won't be seeing her. She could have taken to heart what you said jokingly. And what if she does get you something and you don't her? That would be really bad. If she doesn't respond to what you got for her then I would say it was time to sit down and talk about your issues you are having with her.
2007-02-13 11:44:21 · answer #3 · answered by kahlah23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you are in the dog house and you need to at least get her some flowers or chocolates!! Just surprise her at work..get one of your friends to deliver it. You hurt her feelings and that is why she is being this way. Do not go all out and buy VERY expensive things just something that shows you care! HELL you two have been together off and on for 5 years!!
2007-02-13 11:44:06 · answer #4 · answered by mommy of 2 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you 2 have been together for 5 years which is a long time. you of all people should know more whats up. if you think something is going on, you could always ask her, if not, guess you gotta do some spying and see whats going on. i would get her a gift just incase she gets you one.
2007-02-13 11:44:13 · answer #5 · answered by havingfun 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe shes playing wiht your mind. Be the nice one and go and get her something, keep the receipt incase something does happen. If all goes well it will make things even better!
2007-02-13 11:47:42 · answer #6 · answered by Courtney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably talk to her about it; if she is feeling the same way it will just be making the problem worse.
On the other hand, sometimes relationships end. That may happen in your talk but such is life.
Good luck.
2007-02-13 11:42:04 · answer #7 · answered by For my next trick... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She took what you said to heart and got hurt. she is running away from her hurt by avoiding you. Get her something anyway if you love her and want to make amends, it will be a nice gesture. Be the bigger person.
2007-02-13 11:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by Gardener for God(dmd) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't 'joke' around with someone you care about or you end up with the type of problem you're got now. Your trust issues are YOURS. She hasn't done anything from what you have said that could cause you to doubt her feelings towards you.
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2007-02-13 11:42:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her.
2007-02-13 11:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by Terra T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋