will they be mad about this??
2007-02-13 11:33:21 · 28 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
our parents were out of town and we were bored. he was 13, and I was 11, we just started fooling around and everything. we did have se.x., we didn't realize it was incest until after. Only our sis knew, not even our parents
Was it very bad?? We are 19 and 21 now and don't think it makes us sinners. if we tell our parents would they kill us??
2007-02-13 11:33:29 · update #1
it was consensual not rape or molestation
2007-02-13 11:38:38 · update #2
They probably won't get as mad when you told them right around that time, I'm pretty sure they'll still get mad though. But not as much since it's way in the past.
If I had a child, brother or sister who did that, I'd get pissed, and if I turn to be an old guy at the time, there goes a heart attack.
Oh and now that you mention that, anyone under the age of 18 who has sex can be reported as rape, but it's the parents choice to charge the other person. So it's statuary rape.
2007-02-13 11:38:33 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are kidding. Your parents would be very upset. I dont know how you can get on with your life knowing you did that. How do you start fooling around with your brother to begin with. You have serious emotional issues and need to see a counselor. You shouldnt have been having any kind of sex at 11, let alone with your brother.
2007-02-13 21:56:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
OMG, what the hell is wrong with you? I know that's harsh of me to say, but 11 and 13 KNOW what sex is, and know that fooling around/sex/ anything other than normal activities is NOT RIGHT for a brother and sister! And why does your older sister know about this? Seriously, you two have mental problems- were you molested as younger children or something? That's f****d up!
2007-02-13 19:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by funkymonkeyduck 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't tell your^parents, it's not something I'm sure they'll be pleased to hear. And also, it might hurt them to learn what you guys did, they may feel bad about themselves and the way they raised you. And also, at 11 and 13, we're pretty concious of what we do,...at 11 and 13, we know what sex is and we know that it shouldn't be done between siblings...so don't hurt your parent's feelings with such an embrassing event.
2007-02-13 19:43:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
no because it was a long time ago but if u did tell them when u were 11 and 13 u would of been busted
2007-02-13 19:37:15 · answer #5 · answered by IVERSON'S #1 FAN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tell them about it... some things parents just aren't meant to know. It wouldn't do them any good to know. And you guys were young.. it happened a long time ago. Ask God for forgiveness and it will be granted to you. It will lift that heavy weight off of your shoulders.
2007-02-13 21:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they will probably be upset because of the age that it happened more than anything. will at least i would be. now maybe disgusted a little bit to but everybody views things differently. only you know your parents and what kind of people they are. use ur best judgement!
2007-02-13 19:38:15 · answer #7 · answered by Jessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 and 11 year old siblings don't have sex because they are bored. Either you are really F.O.S. or you and your siblings were abused as children.
If you are straight up, leave your parents out of it for now...you need to tell a therapist.
2007-02-13 19:42:30 · answer #8 · answered by momx3 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
That's pretty serious. If i were your parents i'd be pretty mad but since you obviously didn't get pregnant then it wouldn't be as bad if you had. However if your parents were hoping you were still a virgin when you got married then your pretty much screwed
2007-02-13 19:39:45 · answer #9 · answered by lili 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
why tell ur parents? just forget about it, it'll shock the hell outta them and do no good, unless the older sibling molested the younger, then you wanna pursue legal action
2007-02-13 19:37:36 · answer #10 · answered by tkim90 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋