Nothing ever sexual...just general sweetness. She flirts with mine, and I'm not bothered. But, she gave me the wrinkled brow when I did the same.
2007-02-13 11:20:27 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why would you do that? Really, what is the desired outcome? Ask yourself!
2007-02-13 11:24:28 · answer #1 · answered by AK 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Apparently not with this friends husband. It sounds like this friend isn't very secure with her marriage, or herself. It would all depend on the friend I guess. I have a really good friend and yes his wife flirts with me and I her but my friend knows we are only kidding and nothing would ever come of it so he's OK with it. Some of my other buddies are the same way, but some of my casual friends(acquaintances) I wouldn't dream of flirting with their wives simply because we don't have that close of a friendship.
2007-02-13 11:40:05 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You never should flirt with a married person. It is not alright for anyone. Being nice to a friend's husband is a different thing. Being friend's is not wrong either.
2007-02-13 11:33:57 · answer #3 · answered by Candy N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably dealing with some swingers, to be honest.
No man takes flirting as completely anti-sexual. Ever. There's always a bit of "what if".
I'd say no, unless you want to see where it goes. But don't be surprised if he takes it differently than your husband does.
2007-02-13 11:24:17 · answer #4 · answered by lookingincolo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You guys are playing a dangerous game. I think it is a bad idea to continue this practice. Now, go to the friend and tell her she has a nice shirt then rip it off. Then grab her hair and start pulling while your husbands watch and.....whoa! What happened? Was I typing out loud?
2007-02-13 11:26:20 · answer #5 · answered by jax0817 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't mind when she flirts with your husband, then let it go. But I bet you wouldn't be asking this question if you truly had no problems with it.
Talk to her and tell her how you feel. Maybe she doesn't think that what she is doing is flirting. Maybe she thinks she's just being friendly.
2007-02-13 11:24:56 · answer #6 · answered by Galoshes 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no its not ok, espcially if your friend is uncomfortable. some people can just joke like that, but you wouldnt want it to get too far. I would just point out to your friend the next time she does it to your husband. just take her to the side later and say i really didnt like when you said___ to my husband. i would appreciate it if you wouldnt flirt with him. I am not sure if you are realizing that i dont like it which is why I am telling you and you are my friend so we can talk like this..ok it is kind-of cheesy but something like that.
2007-02-13 11:28:36 · answer #7 · answered by happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if it bothers her. If it does, point out that you are not bothered when she flirts with your husband, but you will not flirt with hers. My girlfriend and I are the same. We both flirt with each other's spouses but are never threatened by it.
2007-02-13 11:34:23 · answer #8 · answered by ♥jen♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uumm no it's not your guys should just have an orgy and get it out in the open seriously she's outta line and so are you you dont flirt with freinds husbands you flirt with the pool boy or bag boy whoever but
husbands are off limits
2007-02-13 11:25:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the level of flirtiness. Are you just being friendly and funny or are you pinching his butt and winking at him? If it's the latter, you should stop. And maybe you should ask yourself why it doesn't bother you that she's flirting with your husband.
2007-02-13 11:23:47 · answer #10 · answered by Princess Leia 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You might want to talk it over with her and tell her she's doing the same thing. No, it is not ok to flirt with each other's hubby, it could lead to something.
2007-02-13 11:24:34 · answer #11 · answered by Kisses 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋