i had a dream that i was having sex!! what do i do? i discovered mastabating on my own a while ago (1/2 year) i dont want to have these thoughts dont call me a pervert i cant help it what do i do to stop it?????
2007-02-13 11:07:28 · 6 answers · asked by Diana R 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Why don't you want to have these thoughts/dreams?
Sexual thoughts/feelings are a part of growing up. Your body/subconcious mind knows you're getting older and is preparing you for womanhood. Afterall, sex is how we human's procreate. No urges for sex = no babies = extinction of our species.
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What I'm saying is that these desires are very normal for a healthy girl. It's instintual and it's natural...
Don't be afraid of the dream... it is quite common actually and you're not a pervert or anything like that. Just enjoy the dream and take it for what it is... a dream.
When you're older (and hopefully in a stable relationship with somone you love and trust), you might find yourself ready to do the real thing.
Best Wishes...
T.
2007-02-13 11:22:19 · answer #1 · answered by Theophania 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The dream is simply a natural reflection of the changes taking place in your body as you grow.
The thoughts and experiences you describe are perfectly normal. As long as it doesn't become an obsession, there is nothing inherently wrong with masturbation.
2007-02-13 12:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by BlueFeather 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dreams about having sex aren't bad, they mean that your feeling good at the current point in your life. You shouldn't be trying to get rid of the dreams, but, if you want to , do everything that you can to make your life miserable, that's the only way.
2007-02-13 11:16:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You go girl!!
Stopping the masterbating would be the abnormal thing to....be normal and healthy....dream about sex and keep on masturbating!!!
2007-02-13 12:10:24 · answer #4 · answered by KaptainKahn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your masturbation is taking form in your dreams there really is no way to control it just let it be
2007-02-13 11:17:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be embarrassed or think this is unnatural because it's perfectly normal!
2007-02-13 11:18:18 · answer #6 · answered by Surely Funke 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋