Do you all think it is possible to love someone that you have had a friendship with and kissed on two occasions and slept together one time? I can't shake this guy from my head. Now, before I get too much crap for this....I am married. My husband does not believe in sex and was a virgin when I met him at 24. NO excuse, I know. Please let me know.
2007-02-13 11:04:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
your head is saying that you love your husband and your heart is saying that you want to go with the other guy.Always follow your heart!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-13 11:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by yo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are not happy in your marriage. You need to decide if you want to stay being married or if you would rather be with the other person. You cannot and should not be with both at the same time. Only you know if you love this other person. Don't mistake infactuation for love either. If you need to, go to counseling together. See if you can work out your problems. But, you need to want to save your marriage to do that. I hope this helps you.
2007-02-13 19:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by Candy N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is but it may be more of a longing for that person as your sexual needs are not being met with your husband. Especially if that was the last time that you had sex.
How does a man not believe in sex??
And why did you marry him knowing that?
2007-02-13 19:17:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you like this man that you've had the affair with, but your just lonely and need affection. You knew what you were getting into when you married your husband, BUT, having said that, speak with your husband and tell him how you are feeling and that you need him physically. I wouldn't tell him about the affair however only because it won't help resolve the issues you are having with your husband. Perhaps something happened to your husband when he was younger? Would he think about counselling?
Good luck.
2007-02-13 20:08:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHOOOOAAAAAA!!!! Your husband does not believe in sex?! He is either gay or a eunich(i hope I spelled that right). If your husband never gives you sex then you should be able to sleep with whomever you please. This is probably why u fell in love with this "friend". Women often equate sex with love. Ask yourself, "Do I still love my husband?".
2007-02-13 19:12:16 · answer #5 · answered by jax0817 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋