I have been with my bf for 6 years now, I LOVE HIM! Should I tell him I am bi? He proposed, but I told him I wanted to finish school, but that was not the truth. Should I tell him?
2007-02-13 10:53:41 · 9 answers · asked by Tu Amiga 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Whatever you do, be careful who you let out that very private piece of information to, dear. It may come back to haunt you. I just think that if you have known each other that long, and you really wanted him to know about your sexual orienatation, you would have told him by now.
You have to ask yourself: "Who are these two other people I know who I told this? What is it about them that I trusted them so much?" Do you trust your boyfriend (who might just be a future acquaintance of yours and not a husband) the same way?
2007-02-13 12:20:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh, not to ruin it for ya, but now EVERYONE knows youre bi....
You are lying to yourself and to us as well. If you REALLY love your BF, you would have told him the REAL reason you dont want to marry him, instead of lying to him. You ddidnt - you were deceptive and you lied to him. Tsk tsk.
2007-02-13 19:00:59 · answer #2 · answered by YDoncha_Blowme 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you feel this is some secret, than yes, you need to tell him, and discuss what it means (or doesn't mean) to you in terms of your relationship. SECRETS destroy trust and love.
2007-02-13 19:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by Terri 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Being bisexual doesn't mean that you can't love a man. Being married does mean that you can't sleep with other people. Bisexuality doesn't really have anything to do with your relationship with your boyfriend.
2007-02-13 18:58:34 · answer #4 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him, but make it clear to him that you love him. You shouldn't keep secrets from him. Good luck w/ that
2007-02-13 18:59:03 · answer #5 · answered by oceanxdeepxeyes 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If the relationship is that serious, then you need to tell him.
2007-02-13 21:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be open and honest, if he really loves you, it will all work out, wish you the best of luck
2007-02-13 19:05:04 · answer #7 · answered by okurbusted 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you're out now!!!!! you can love him & a girl too!!!! You're Bi
2007-02-13 19:17:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
n o u gonna break his heart but then the truth hearts ...........tell him through IM ...................oh yeah u need some help plz hang around more GUYS ....... start attending church ..........S>O>S GET HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
no offense
2007-02-13 19:16:15 · answer #9 · answered by Honestly 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋