I have a boy cousin who performed unspeakable acts on another younger girl cousin for several years until she finally told someone. They were both very young (between the ages of 8-11), and now since he's grown up and was kicked out of the house, some of my family members still communicate with him and act as though nothing ever happened. I've found it impossible to accept what he did, and I've basically abandoned him as a family member. Is there something wrong with that? How do people handle situations like this?
2007-02-13 10:44:48 · 12 answers · asked by TermiteChokinOnASplinter 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
HANG HIM BY THE BALLS !!! You stay away from him .
2007-02-13 10:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I normally don't answer these types of questions, but this one hit home. There is nothing wrong with your "take" on this situation.
What I wonder, is where were the parents? How was this allowed, and was there no supervision? I blame them for leaving these two little ones alone unsupervised.
I would also want to know where this little boy learned these things....was he a victim of abuse himself?
If it were me, I would let everyone know what I thought.
2007-02-13 10:56:29 · answer #2 · answered by coachls 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
good. That was an awefull, perverted thing. Don't even treat him like a human. Shun him, BUT, if the victem forgives him and he apolagizes, forgive him as well, let him in the family, but be carefull with him around kids.
2007-02-13 10:50:25 · answer #3 · answered by 123_Not_It 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with that, I had the same in my family it was a step granfather on his death bed my aunt wanted me to go see him i told her no way let the cancer eat him away
2007-02-13 10:52:09 · answer #4 · answered by mimi from KANSAS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she say it was forced or did she just say it was happening?
Kid have that "what have you got there" curiosity. It's usually because the parents have treated the body as taboo and never explained stuff to them. If a kid is curious, he's not too young to be educated.
2007-02-13 10:54:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
NO, IF THAT HAD OF HEPPENED HERE I WOULD NOT HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH HIM . THAT IS JUST CRAP . HE SHOULD BE PUNISHED THE GIRL SHOULD OF CALLED THE LAW ON HIM I WOULD HAVE . WHEN I WAS YOUNG A NEIGHBOR DONE THAT TO ANOTHER NEIGHBOR AND BOTH WHERE THE SAME SEX JUST THE ONE MOLESTED WAS RETARDED . HE GOT JAIL TIME
2007-02-13 10:49:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with disowning a sicko like that.
Talk to your family about your feelings about him and what he did
2007-02-13 10:50:07 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we all have a right to our opinions and we certainly have the right to avoid people we do not care for even if they are family
be cool...
2007-02-13 10:50:23 · answer #8 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can talk with them, but be careful with this type of guys they might do they action again.
2007-02-13 10:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by yogasun2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's apologized to her, and she's accepted, then i'd treat him just as your girl cousin... otherwise... he's not an okay person...
2007-02-13 10:48:49 · answer #10 · answered by Lord Vlaew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut himout r of your life! he a sick perverted bastard! get yourkinfolks that hate him and some friends together and cut his dick off.
2007-02-14 07:49:04 · answer #11 · answered by oldhagthenag 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋