I know this is a pretty broad and general question but I just want to know. My boyfriend and I have been really close best friends for 6 years and we've been together for almost 2. We always knew we would end up together and getting married. I just want to know your thoughts on what makes someone your soulmate?
2007-02-13 10:42:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like you have found one. It is someone that you feel like you have known forever even though you just met. Someone who you can talk to and share anything with and they never judge you and love you regardless of it. Someone who you can be comfortable with and just be yourself and they love you just the way you are. This is what I think it means.
2007-02-13 10:47:25 · answer #1 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There will be no doubt in you when you have met your soulmate. You will just mess together perfectly. You will be able to complete the others sentences. Sometimes you may even answer with out hearing the question. You will both be interested in at least some of the same things. You will never run out of talking to each other and learning new things about each other. You will connect with each other on a spiritual level. It will be more than lust, more than being happy together, more than caring about the other. And yes, you will still fight. That is being human. Love is nice. But love does not compare with being with your soulmate. I met my soulmate in college. We married and had one child together. After 20 years together we had problems enough to see a counselor. We ended up getting divorced. When our counselor asked each of us individually what we would miss the most being apart, each of us (independent of the other) answered "not being with my soulmate." We have been apart for 10 years now. I still know what he is thinking or doing sometimes. Either one of us will help the other anytime the other needs something. Being married to someone else will not stop the fact that you are soulmates. Knowing your soulmate is the most wonderful thing you can ever experience. And trust me when I say, you will know you are soulmates because you really will just know. And it is so much more than loving each other. Don't mistake love for being soulmates.
2007-02-13 11:13:01 · answer #2 · answered by Candy N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I depends... my husband is my soulmate, because he reminds me of the things I would otherwise forget (ie my keys in the door, the headlights).. he can make me laugh at the drop of a hat.. he calms me and excites me (sometimes all at once...lol) and can put up with me in ANY mood...
He is literally my other half.
Stop and think about why you love this guy... the answers you come up with...that's why he's your soulmate.
2007-02-13 10:51:39 · answer #3 · answered by bensbabe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first post, but some people also think it is a love that you continiously meet and fall in love with in multiple lifetimes over and over again. To believe in that you also have to believe in reincarnation though.
2007-02-13 10:52:10 · answer #4 · answered by StrawberryShortcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋