I am 31 years old and he's 23. My obssesion comes because 8at least I think so) I was a "late bloomer", I was fully accepted as gay in my early 20's. He was sexually active since he was 13, I think that I miss some exciting experiences because when I was a teen I was too scared to be openly gay. He is no very happy with all my questions, but I can't just stop asking... will this damage my relation?
2007-02-13 10:32:57 · 8 answers · asked by aletz635 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I am sure interrogating him will let him know that you don't trust him, and trust is essential for a healthy relationship.
2007-02-13 10:38:08 · answer #1 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 03:39:43 · answer #2 · answered by cheathem 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want to talk about it, don't press. He may come to resent your asking.
If you think you've missed out on something, share that feeling with him. You two might create some really fun fantasy role-playing in the process.
2007-02-13 11:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by dougeebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand what you are saying. And communications are very important in a relationship. But they need to be of both partners likings. Please try to explain to him how you honestly feel, the way you explained it here. If he still feels uncomfortable about talking about it,then stop.
2007-02-13 16:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by JUSTIN C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling. It's like live porn. But if he doesn't feel like sharing, then it's bound to damage your relationship.
And by the way, if you're digging into his sex life at 13, then it's called vicarious pedophilia. Just so you know what you're doing.
2007-02-13 10:45:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you cannot stop asking him about somethings he does not want to talk about, then you are obsessed and any obsession will damage your relationship with him.
2007-02-13 11:30:07 · answer #6 · answered by castle h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
big time let the past die and move on and get a life in 2007!
2007-02-13 10:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by marissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too much of anything is bad.
2007-02-13 10:42:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋