She left him six years ago for another man and had a child with this other man, however when she and this other man break up with each other, there she goes calling my boyfriend for help financially and otherwise. They have a daughter together, but sometimes it doesn't have to do with her at all. Recently, he got a cell phone for his daughter, she doesn't ever use it , so his exwife decided to keep it for herself and ask him to change the number for her. AND he DID!! This was all after they had an argument about and she threatened to take him to court for child support. He has been paying her child support since they divorced six years ago. Please help What should I do!!!???
2007-02-13 10:32:33 · 9 answers · asked by cool30mom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He shouldn't be tending to ANY of her needs if he expects to have a mature/secure relationship with a new person. His daughter is his blood, but that chick needs to get her own man... lol
It does sound odd, that's for sure.
If this turns out for the worst, (if he leaves you for her) She and he were never worth worrying for in the first place, and you will totally get over him. If he's an awesome guy, he will understand if you tell him why it's just wierd and inappropriate that he should have anything to do with her, and he will just be like, "Yeah, I see your point." And it would just stop. Ask him to put himself in your shoes, and how he would feel should the situation be reversed. She is being annoying and out of line.
Good luck!
2007-02-13 10:44:03 · answer #1 · answered by ~blessss♫☼ ♪♥ ☼ ♠♫ ♣☺☻ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave,
You obviously have no idea how this dynamic works.
He was once in love with her. If she left, he probably has feelings for her, but no desire to reunite.
They have a child, and she has custody. If she needs help that means his daughter needs help as well. Just because he's boning you it doesn't make you #1 in his life.
If you can't accept his past, and don't have the presence of mind to understand that he isn't doing this to piss you off, (You sound like a narcissist to me. "Why isn't he forsaking everything for me?") You should go after someone that hasn't been married yet. I'm sure his inexperience and your controlling personality will make a terrific divorce.
2007-02-13 10:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What the hack she wants from your boyfriend?? She must be thinking he is her BANK.... Go and talk to her... Tell her to leave yous alone!!! Unless you talk to her she'll keep bothering you and your life. Talk to her and tell her to find an another Bank!! there are so many daft guys out there anyway...
2007-02-13 18:27:27 · answer #3 · answered by :( 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sucks huh? How deep are you in? Too late to get out without getting hurt? Baggage sucks.
2007-02-13 10:38:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
that ex must be real bitçh.let her take him to court he is paying child support anyway so what s gonna happen.
2007-02-13 10:37:52 · answer #5 · answered by \ 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him. Tell him to minimize all communications with her or you will leave him. Take this seriously.
2007-02-14 09:35:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should stay out of it. You are not his wife, you are his girlfriend. Do not put yourself in the middle of his ex-wife and his daughter.
2007-02-13 10:39:18 · answer #7 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
what a nitemare. you need to talk to your bf and tell him how u feel about all this. see what he decides to do. looks like he still got feelings for his ex-wife
2007-02-13 10:38:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
what the first post wasn't enough or are there two whiney women worked up over the fact that their boyfrind is a decent human being? Yes and you you are a spoiled brat.
2007-02-13 10:38:18 · answer #9 · answered by Arthur Richards of Kent 3 · 2⤊ 4⤋