My wife would like me to enable her wildest fantasy. Should I do this for her? I do love her more than anything in the world but this is a pretty wild fantasy of hers, I even get excited thinking about doing this for her. (involves another person)
2007-02-13 10:31:52 · 11 answers · asked by open_phunguy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
actually I should have said involves other people.
2007-02-13 10:38:54 · update #1
mmmmmm, you sound like a good husband. if you're alright with it and as you say it excites you, go ahead. remember it's your business and it's between 3 consenting adults. let me ask you...if it's her fantasy, does she want another man? that's all right, it's a private matter. have fun, but be safe!!!!!!
2007-02-13 10:40:01 · answer #1 · answered by amethystlady2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This theme never ceases to amaze me.
Do what you will but for me - a fantasy should remain just that. Marriage is for two people and when a third is brought in it's no longer a marriage which is for exclusivity.
What happens in the shadows of ones mind becoming a reality in the light of day may well turn to nightmare, and huge regret. Beware, my friend. I do hope you have no reason to ever recall my words. Sex for the sake of sex is bound to be a disappointment.
2007-02-13 10:47:07 · answer #2 · answered by Ande 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Practice safe sex! Set your bounderie ahead of time so there are no surprises and everyone understands what you both will or won't do. Also, unless you want to possibly complicate your relationship with a love triangle you should insist on playing with other couples only, no single men or women. That way you don't run the risk of falling in love with another woman, or of her falling in love with another man. I think if you look up 'swinging' on the internet you will find dating sites for couples who play, but do that TOGETHER or not at all or you could create problems in your relationship. Good luck!
2007-02-13 10:49:05 · answer #3 · answered by StrawberryShortcake 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
they're many times only lonely or no longer lonely,worrying those who love animals and do not have the middle as an example away strays.there might want to be some who're loopy,yet,whats up, all and sundry might want to be loopy.And different human beings have different reviews on what loopy is.case in point,some human beings might want to imagine you're loopy.LOL and by technique of how,i'm the dictionary woman
2016-11-03 09:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by nocera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you involve others then it wont be a marital act any longer it well be a community thing and you will be open to what ever happens good or bad. its best left alone in my opinion fantasy's should stay just that.its like thirst drink some and u want more not good for marriage
2007-02-13 11:08:32 · answer #5 · answered by raindovewmn41 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't do it. In this case is should remain a a fantasy. It WILL ruin your relationship later. Like someone else said...be careful what you wish for. Keep it a fantasy.
2007-02-13 11:01:13 · answer #6 · answered by peg9021972 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you already made up your mind to fulfill your wife's fantasies. Be careful what you wish for.....somethings are meant to be fantasies.
2007-02-13 10:55:52 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go for it. enjoy. it gets both of you excited, so why not. i suggest checking out the other person (people) before playing, but have a blast
2007-02-13 10:41:32 · answer #8 · answered by bmoline 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lt's entirely up to you. lf it's something that will please the two of you, go for it. l personally would not like to bring other people into my relationship with my hubby but if you don't think it's something that the two of you will regret later, do it and have fun. Best of luck to you.
2007-02-13 11:31:40 · answer #9 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhh I wonder what it is? If you are excited about it to and you really love her then you will do it for her. I think that would be really sweet, so go for it!!!
2007-02-13 10:36:13 · answer #10 · answered by Chat Noir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋