im adicted to SEX : S?

Question

im 16.. my name nicole.. K well me and my bf have been going out for a year now... and i lost my virginty to him.. and i love him soo much.. when we first started having sex it was ok. i was kidda shy at first but when we got more comfortable with each other we stared do more postions. which made our sex life more better.. we now have sex almost EVERY! day and a few time when we do. thats not that bad but for the past 5 month we havent been using condoms cuz it feels so much better with out.. but i know that stupid cuz i might get pregnat.. but i unno cuz i really love him.. do you think its healthy for me having so much sex.. and not using a condom???

Answer 1

Please, wear a condom. Most will agree that it feels better without. If you insist on this, and you really do love him, then he will accompany you to a doctor's office to be tested for STDs. It's simple and confidential, even though you are under 18 years old. State laws protect minors' rights when regarding contraception and sexuallity issues. At the very least, use another form of birth control. There are lots available. The pill, the patch, the new nuva ring, the shot. Being a mom may sound cool, but remember, at 16, your body is not physically ready for pregnancy. Your doc can answer questions. You are old enough to have sex, so you are old enough to make these decisions. Best of luck.

Answer 2

Well, as far as I know, having sex every day ain't bad! But...if ur really concerned about this you should see an axpert in this matter! Having sex every day isn't a sexual adiction...thinking all day long wich positions should you try could be a problem! There are many thing in life that matter more than sex! But, as I said before, go to an expert if you think it's necessary! And if you want to avoid gettin pregnant, use a condom or take pils( be careful ,though , at the secondary effects, alergies, etc) . Do not think that '' it ain't going to happen to me'' ,because it will !

Answer 3

You probably already know the answer to this question. If and only if he is your first and only sex partner AND you are his first and only sex partner, there is obviously no risk of STDs, whether or not you use a condom, no matter how much sex you have. BUT, there is a very real risk of you getting PREGNANT. As you may know, pregnancy involves a child growing in your body that will one day come forth and begin to scream unreasonable demands at you, incessantly, for a good many years if not the rest of your life. Getting pregnant may or may not sound like fun, but it is an excellent way of ending your childhood. I know you're sixteen and probably offended that I would call you a child, which I understand. I'm not trying to say that you're like a toddler or anything, but you are at a time in your life when you probably have very little responsibility and there will be a time one day when you look back on it fondly. If you have to have sex with this boy, which I'm sure you think you do, you HAVE to do something in the way of birth control. The pill works if you take it religiously, but it is not 100% effective. Condoms work well if you use them properly, but they are not 100% effective. The bottom line is, if you aren't ready to raise a child, you shouldn't have sex, and at the very least, you shouldn't have unprotected sex. Sorry for the lecture. Oh yeah, and you're not a sex addict. Pretty much everyone really likes sex, and wants as much as possible.

Answer 4

honey, there is nothing wrong with having sex, but you need to be safe while doing it. Your still SO young, could u imagine having a child at your age?? go get on the pill, or some type of birth control, do your parents know your having sex? i cant really say anything to you about NOT using condoms, because i dont either, BUT im also on birth control and have been since i was 14. I take EVERY precaution to NOT get pregnant. and you should too. The thing is, im almost 22, ive pretty much lived my teenage years, you havent. Im still young and dont want kids now. Most of my friends have babies and no one to help them, all because the man ran away because he was scared. yall may love each other and its great that yall do, but be smart about it. and your right it does feel better without condoms but if anything, in your case, use the pull out method or something. Im just kinda scared for you because you are so young but like i said there are MANY ways to protect yourself, just do it! be safe

Answer 5

You're going to hate me for saying this, but you do NOT love him. What you love is how the sex makes you feel. He may be a likable guy at 16, but you have know idea what kind of man he will turn out to be. If you do get pregnant then you might get an early glimpse, but right now you need to positively prevent that. Do you realize that you're trading a risk of getting pregnant for a little more sensation during sex? Think about that for a loooooooooong time. There's nothing wrong with you liking sex, but liking it so much you'll risk seriously damaging your entire future shows that you're letting the sex control you and not you controlling the sex. THINK!!!

Answer 6

The amount of sex isn't worrisome. Sex addicts cannot control their urges and will have sex with anyone and will seek out sex from other people when they want it. They all obsess about it and try to pleasure themselves as much as possible. It is like alcoholism where the person becomes dependent.

But you need to use a condom!!!!!! It doesn't matter if you love him or not. Do you want to have a baby at 16? Are you willing to give up school and a career and get only 4 hours of sleep at a time and change diapers and feed and play and nurture a child? Is your bf willing to help you? Are your parents? Would you even have the money to take care of a child? USE A CONDOM! Or at least birth control.

Answer 7

No, I don't. All kinds of STDs can be transfered without using condoms. I know you don't want to hear that, since he's your boyfriend, but it's something to keep in mind anyway. Who was he with before you? Also. You are way to young to be having a baby. What would happen if you got pregnant? What would your options be? Having an abortion is something you'll have to live with for the rest of your life. Trust me, I know sex without condoms is so much better, but get on birth control or something. Just do some research, talk to your parents if you can, and get yourself on the pill or something. Would you rather talk to your parents now and get BC or talk to them later trying to explain that you're pregnant?

Hope this was helpful.

Answer 8

Like the other guy said, its your life. But you will probably end up pregnant. Are you and your bf ready for that. What about your parents? Do you have a plan? If your answer is no to most of thewe questions then you should slow down or at least where a condom and any other means of protection. Hope this helps.

Answer 9

Having sex that often is fine - so long as you're both happy with it, but for goodness sake - why no contraception? You not only might get pregnant - you could already be pregnant. I suggest you take a pregancy test straight away you can buy one from the pharmacy, and see your doctor or a family planning clinic for some advice about contraception - you're extremely fertile at your age so it's likely you'll get pregnant if you carry on as you are. You're only 16, you've a life ahead of you - there's plenty of time for motherhood later on.

Answer 10

no ! sounds like you relay loves him .. but think if you do get pregnant and you tell your b/f will he leave or stay....what will your mom and dad think ...what will your friends think...ASK your self do i relay want to be a mom at 16 years old...you need to think about that a lot a baby at 16 will Chang you life for ever remember as the girl you have the right to tell him to put a condom or not by all means i mean no harm by saying this finish school first...