My friends and family (save my girlfriend) all depend on me for things, and when I need something they are nowhere to be found. Money, etc. But if I needed something such as a ride to work, no one could even get me there. My parents are a mess, etc.
Is this like this for everyone?
2007-02-13 09:35:23 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Live on my own, paid for my parents divorce lol
2007-02-13 09:44:05 · update #1
You may just have leadership qualities. Most people don't. It's the same way for me. If I want something done I have to do it myself.
2007-02-13 09:38:03 · answer #1 · answered by Derek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like that a lot of the time for everyone. It just seems like friends just take these days instead of giving back. Perhaps new friends and a talk to the family is in order. That's what I do. I do a lot for people, and then when I stop giving they wonder why, and realize.
2007-02-13 17:38:36 · answer #2 · answered by KS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you seem like a strong person, people just assume you can take care of yourself, no one ever stops to ask you if you're ok or offer you a helping hand, it's just the way the world works unfortunately, people are selfish by nature.
2007-02-13 17:46:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well everyone feels like that at one time or another. I know I sure have. I always remember to step back and take a deep breathe. I understand the whole ride thing. I am not proud but I had my licenses suspended for 3 months one time and no one would help me but my boyfriend. Now his are suspended for a year and I take him everywhere. He did it for me and now I am returning the favor. My girlfriends never help me out but I always help them out. At one point or another we need to grow a backbone and tell everyone NO!!!
2007-02-13 17:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by anna w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes particularly if you are generous to others you will notice that most people are so selfish and are ready to take take take but never give. You have to learn to be a bit less giving so they can appreciate things more and reciprocate.
2007-02-13 17:38:54 · answer #5 · answered by Gone fishin' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am like that too. It gets very frustrating, i know. I just like to think that someday i will be rewarded for this. So just suck it up, and wait until something better comes because that is all you can do.
2007-02-13 17:39:33 · answer #6 · answered by OH Whuddup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are paranoid. Life isn't easy. Wait til you move out. Toughen up kiddo.
2007-02-13 17:38:36 · answer #7 · answered by chattychica04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You are unlucky.
Get away from these people and find some friends who are worth having.
2007-02-13 17:38:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY IT'S THE WORLD. I WOULD JUST LIKE TO SHOW YOU MY MIDDLE FINGER. LET ME BE THE FIRST TO TELL YOU THAT THIS IS A WRESTLING MATCH AND I'M GOING TO PUT YOU INTO AN ARM BAR AND THEN A SUBMISSION CHOKE.
-WORLD
2007-02-13 17:37:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋