I am a wife cheated on my husband that always ignores me
2007-02-13 09:29:11 · 39 answers · asked by EnjoyR3d 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YOU DIRTY HOMEWRCKER
2007-02-13 09:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
You did something you knew was wrong - when human beings do things like that they feel guilt. That's what makes us think twice before doing something wrong again in the future. You should feel guilty. At least that means you have a conscience. You want to stop feeling guilty? Own up to what you've done. Deal with it like a mature adult, which I doubt you are since you obviously cheated on him to "get him back" for ignoring you. Yeah, you showed him, huh.
2007-02-13 11:32:01 · answer #2 · answered by Bayou Boy in Tx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you not feeling guilty after you did such an awful thing? Cheating is plain cheating. Not being loyal, faithfal...in a realationship. If you feel like your husband has been ignoring you and you talked to him many times about it, if he still ignores you then why not find a way out. Maybe your not right for each other. At least wat you could do before is break up with him before you go on with other mens. I believe you did this becuz you lack of security. Maybe he isn't giving you enough attention.. not enough secure for you to make a move like that. If you really wanna feel better then tell the truth. At least you let the truth out of you. Instead feeling guilt later on with him. If he still loves you yes he will be hurt but you have to tell him one way or another.
people people! why cant anyone of you be more respect to ur partner. if they dont treat you right then get it solve first before you make any othe rmove with someone else. Is respect to you and ur partner~
2007-02-13 09:36:13 · answer #3 · answered by ceci 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just because he always ignores u don't mean run out and cheat u should feel bad for the rest of your life and hop he dont find out your feelings may not be the only thing that may be feeling bad good lock wish u luck but stop cheating AIDS is out there work on your life with husband not gamble with it
2007-02-13 17:45:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cheated on my husband,confessed, and even now a year after we've divorced(not just because of the cheating),I still feel guilty. I guess maybe sooner or later it goes away but I'm not sure how long it takes.
2007-02-13 09:40:48 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You two obviously need to sit down and discuss things. Ask him why he is ignoring you number one. Once you find that out, ask him how you can make him feel better. Let's face it, cheating on a loved one is just hurtful. I'm sure he is so hurt right now that he doesn't know how he feels about you anymore. The key is building up trust with him again. That just takes time. Just don't make the same mistake again.
2007-02-13 09:36:19 · answer #6 · answered by AmandaHugNKiss 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are not happy, and cheating is a way for you to sabotage your marriage. You're with the wrong person, otherwise you wouldn't do something to jeopardize a good marriage. Telling him you cheated will do nothing.
You should be honest about how you're feeling about the marriage, seek counseling, or move on.
There is no perfect marriage, and no perfect person for everyone.
2007-02-13 09:48:02 · answer #7 · answered by I do 26.2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating on someone who ignores you is not right, I'm sure you know that. You took the easy way out. You will have to live with your conscience, thats a small price to pay for the heart you hurt when you decided to be unfaithful. Give it time and beg for forgiveness
2007-02-13 09:32:07 · answer #8 · answered by Cute Stuff 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The only way to stop feeling guilty is to fess up, He may ignore you but how is that any excuse to break your marriage vows. You should of discussed how you were feeling before you slept with another man.
You obviously do not know what it means to be married....some growing up needs to take place.
2007-02-13 09:42:00 · answer #9 · answered by pepc1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is sad is you threw in the "that always ignores me" at the end of your statement. It doesn't matter, you cheated. You should feel guilty. That doesn't justify what you did anymore or less.
2007-02-13 09:34:24 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention whether or not your husband is aware of your fling.
If your husband always ignores you, you belong in marriage counseling, not in someone else's bed. If your husband won't go to marriage counseling--take yourself to counseling--take care of YOU--since apparently your husband is not!
By the way, if he's ignoring you--do you think that he is cheating?
All the more reason to get to counseling--before it all falls apart.
2007-02-13 09:36:01 · answer #11 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋