why do so many people think that when a young person has a baby their a whore?

Question

say for if a girl 13 yrs old

Answer 1

As for calling her names such as "whore" or other demeaning names, that's all based on an individual and their own morals and beliefs. It is a rude and awful thing to call any woman, no matter how old they are. I am 19 years old, and pregnant with my first child, and seen in that way to many. It can hurt, yes, but you shouldn't listen to anyone who speaks their opinion like that.

Thirteen is seen to many as too young to have a child, or sex for that matter. It's difficult to go through those stages in your life without the worry of a child. Becoming a parent at such a young age can seriously alter the way that you see the rest of your life. It's best to go through the tough teenage years without that extra burden in your life.

Answer 2

It is not fair to say a girl is a whore. She is very young though, too young. Right now if this is you or your friend this person needs all the support she can get. This girl probably didn't have much before girls don't usually have sex that young unless they have low selfesteem then any boy can come along tell her she's pretty and she might be inclined to do something she doesn't really want to or maybe there was pressure form her friends. God help her I know her hormones are going nuts puberty and pregnancy I can't imagine. She's not a whore but she's gonna have to grow up much sooner than she planned.

Answer 3

I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that this pertains to you personally. If you are pregnant, get to a doctor YESTERDAY. If you're only considering getting pregnant, please think twice, then think again. Life is long, and there will be plenty of time for children of your own.

13 is very young to be pregnant, and brings up a great number of complications for mother and baby. Many 13 year olds aren't physically large enough to carry a baby to term. On my maternity unit, there was a 14 year old who had a baby boy at 7 months gestation the day before I had my daughter. He had to be in an isolette, he was on IVs, he was jaundiced.... it hurt just to look at him and his poor mother. His grandmother was beside herself with worry for both of them, and the mother tore so badly giving birth that she couldn't walk the whole 3 days I was in the hospital. My father talked to her mother, and she said the girl had kept the pregnancy a secret for 4 months and didn't get proper medical attention.

I don't want to scare anyone, but it's better to be a bit scared than risk yourself and your baby.

In addition to all the societal issues, like trying to afford a baby at 13, when one doesn't have a complete education yet, there are long term physical issues. Being pregnant releases hormones that soften the joints and ligaments, which literally reshapes your body. Few 13 year olds have reached their full growth yet, and you run the risk of having back problems and other joint changes/disorders that will last your whole life. Even for an old lady like myself(had my first baby at 29), my feet widened out half a shoe size, and my back now has a sideways curve in it.

I've heard that the desire to have babies in young girls has a lot to do with the need for unconditional love. If this is the case, offer to help care for someone else's infant. You'll find that the love comes with a lot of work on your part, and you'll get some uncondional love from that baby's mother. Trust me, someone willing to watch my baby for an afternoon so I can get some sleep would be worth quite a bit to me, and I have a husband to help, which many teenage boys aren't willing to do.

I would never call you a whore, I don't even know you, but I can counsel you to deal with whatever your situation is as wisely as possible.

Answer 4

I personally do not call people names such as that.

However, I don't think 13 yr olds should have children. I think that 13 year olds should concentrate on school and focus on a future career. 13 year olds should also focus on playing & enjoying their childhood. There will be plenty of time to have a baby in the future when one is stable, financially ready & responsible.

Answer 5

Because we are in a new era but still practing and beleiving ol time ways. I mean things happen for a reason God put that child there. He knew the exact time place and people that were going to mate and have a child. Thats with every child in the world there or no accidents God doesnt make them just we as humans dont expect it. But we have to keep an open mind to always expect the unexpected

God Bless U Hun, and Bump whoever has rude things to say they talked about Christ and look at my savior now

Answer 6

Because at that age you don't understand what sex does to you, not just physically but emotionally and not only that, I am 25 and have kids and it is not easy at all, not one bit and I am what people would call "grown up". At 13 you shouldn't even be having sex you should be playing video games or going to the mall. Not who will be watching your baby while you go to school. That like 7th or 8th grade??? I hope my child don't have a baby at that age! I feel sorry for the CHILD that does.

Answer 7

It's not that she's a whore....it's that she is too young to be having sex. 13 years old is so young....still a baby! 13 year olds should not have children themselves because the are too naive/immature/young/unstable. Plus they are financially, emotionally, and physically not ready to have a baby.

Answer 8

everybody had their opinion about stuff like that. That is young, but its not that your a whore. stuff happens, just make the best of it and make sure that the child is taking care of. and quit trying to make everybody happy because no matter what you do someone is going to have something negative to say. it will get better!

Answer 9

I don't think they are a wh*re i think that their parents does not care what they do and the teenagers are not smart enough to not have sex or atleast get on birth control. Anyone in their right mind should not be wanting to get pregnant at the age of 13 wouldn't you think? I think it is a shame when it comes to teenage pregnancy.

Answer 10

im 16 years old and i thought that people would think of me like that now that im pregnant. but it has actually been better than i thought i guess some people understand and some people dont. people make mistakes.