I am 13 and I have a quite a lots of friends at school but for some reason I get annoyed when I see people now. When I get asked to work in a pair I usually choose to work on my own. I normally try to avoid sitting with my friends but when they ask I can't refuse because I don't want to be unpopular. I didn't used to be like this. I used to make jokes up to entertain the class because it feels good when everyone laughs with your jokes. But now I don' t feel like doing anything and get annoyed when I hear people talk. My friends, starting to see me getting annoyed at them, seems to start staying away from me too. What should I do?
2007-02-13 08:43:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I do have enough social skills but I dont want to be with anyone for some unknown reason. My only concern is that I don't want to be called a loner in the future.
A loner is when you dont have friends and you dont have a choice
But I am just fed up with everyone even my family members
2007-02-13 08:55:37 · update #1
It seems that you need to work on your social skills. It's nice to have your quiet time but it isn't normal to want it all the time. You have to show some repect to your friends. After all, they are your friends! And a friend is a friend at all times.
2007-02-13 08:49:04 · answer #1 · answered by NICOLE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and have fun you'r 13 you don't need to be all stressed out. You just need time to cool off. Try drawling pictures, or writing a story where you're the main haracter but you don't have to use you're name or anything like it. Think of some thing you like and then doing that will most likely calm you down. You could even write a journal.
2007-02-13 08:56:35 · answer #2 · answered by sammi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I know how you feel because I was there to.what you should do is try not 2 get frustrated cz 1day you will lose it and you will lose your friends & your fame at school.cz I waz on my way to juvie for getting frustrated at my mom and she couldnt take it so she called juvies detention center & they waz gonna take me because it was uncontrollable but instead of they taking me I promised I waz gonna straighten up.
2007-02-13 09:25:28 · answer #3 · answered by somethinslim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax a little bit and be a lttile bit more outgoing
2007-02-13 08:48:37 · answer #4 · answered by NYRNYM38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋