2007-02-13 08:42:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
cut off contact with them,delete email,phone number,avoid them so you can move on..
2007-02-13 08:50:34 · answer #1 · answered by Ellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't, thats not how its supposed to work. You can't forget about people you have been really intimite with. The reason why cheating is painful is because your partner knows how deeply connected two people become once they share that level of intimacy. All you can do is recommit yourself and allow time to pass. The memory will fade over the coming weeks and months and years, and you will establish yourself once again as a person who can stand by their promises. Good luck.
2007-02-13 09:03:25 · answer #2 · answered by Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B/c you love the one your with? or b/c the "mister" is married? No matter, I suppose, you wish to forget him? Stop ALL contact! I mean ALL. If this person works with you, ask to be transferred to a diff dept. If it's a cheap job anyways, quit & get a diff cheap job. If it's b/c u love the one your with, do all the above but add surprise into your relationship by starting all the things u two use to do together. In other words, court the one your with...again. Tell him you need those sweet things returned. I hope this works! Good luck!
2007-02-13 08:56:07 · answer #3 · answered by HeavenlyAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think about the pain the other person (who is being cheated on) is feeling. The pain and distress the heart breaking, panic attacks, the home that is falling part. If that doesn't turn you off nothing will
2007-02-13 09:30:54 · answer #4 · answered by honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot forget that is the problem with affairs, they can ruin your life, great at the time but in the end its all heartbreak. You should forget in time but you must try harder with your husband now so it does not happen again. If you cannot work it out with him then try to get out of your marriage as life is too short to be unhappy. Good luck.
2007-02-13 10:55:16 · answer #5 · answered by Kirks Folley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple-try thinking about the other people who will eventually be, or are now, affected by the cheating.
2007-02-14 20:13:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to??
Maybe the "thrill" of the cheating is your turn on. Think of your mate cheating on you..............now, can you stop?
2007-02-13 08:52:42 · answer #7 · answered by outtahere2day 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about the other people that are affected by your actions- 'cheating' means there is another relationship that you are ruining!
shame on you.
2007-02-13 08:51:09 · answer #8 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant baby, dont fight it, it's like trying to forget about your favorite dessert. Just enjoy it the times you get to eat that dessert and have it eat you up as well... oh my!
2007-02-13 08:53:40 · answer #9 · answered by slick_pavement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck!
2007-02-13 08:49:27 · answer #10 · answered by precious1971 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋