2007-02-13 08:38:43 · 26 answers · asked by lmw 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
why would i let hallmark dictate when my bf tells me he loves me?
2007-02-13 08:44:22 · answer #1 · answered by Sofia Aleka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm guessing you adult adult males are form of youthful, so that's no longer unusual for someone your age now to not be in a position to have adequate money a lavish present. yet -- if he would not a minimum of make you a card (all he desires is paper and a pen, am I top?) then i might want to understand your frustration. Does it warrant a chop up? possibly no longer. yet I characteristic it more desirable to him being a youthful guy who would not recognize how women individuals view 15 August 1945. maximum adult adult males ultimately parent it out! in case your guy is stingy, i visit maintain in mind that that's no longer precisely the most eye-catching trait and that i do not blame you for being became off. Realistically although, you'll ultimately meet a guy who will romance your butt off on Valentine's Day. Have a contented valentine's day!
2016-11-03 09:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by andry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry Im not female so I dont have a boyfriend but I wanted to answer your question. The thing about holidays and special days is that people have come to EXPECT things from others. Gifts and cards are supposed to be gifts from the heart not things your obligated to get or give. To expect or ask for a gift or card is just wrong. These special days make people feel obligated when they may not be in the mood.
Dont judge how he feels about you but the fact he may not give you something.
2007-02-13 08:43:37 · answer #3 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. Who the heck is Hallmark to dictate when my BF or husband, for that matter, can or has to tell me he loves me? It is much more important that I am being treated well every day than receiving a box of overpriced chocolates and a pepto-bismol-pink card one day a year.
A bouquet on, say, March 12 or whatever means a lot more because it shows that he is thinking of me without the constant onslaught of Harlequin-romance themed reminders.
Don't buy into the commercialism - the only ones who profit are businesses.
2007-02-13 08:44:10 · answer #4 · answered by ina291262 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would be lying if i said yes I see what everyone else is saying that it doesnt matter they shouldnt have to give you something just because everyone else is doing it but it would be something nice for him and also for the guys they might not say anything but hey why cant they get some thing for valentines too (if they deserve it)
2007-02-14 08:22:38 · answer #5 · answered by Jeanette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me before and his excuse was that he shouldn't have to get me anything because he does things for me in other ways. I'm sorry, but on the most romantic day of the year, get your loved one a fricken card! That is the least they can do! We broke up, but for other reasons.
2007-02-13 08:42:16 · answer #6 · answered by xquis81 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
depends on your age...if you are young - you would get the 'hump' with a failure to produce something on valentines day - but when you are slightly older - you realise...its just a BIG rip off...and you dont pay 100 pounds for red roses...you wait until a couple of days later...and get them for 20 pounds!! (even then...totally over priced)- what people spend on flowers...you could have a romantic break for two somewhere nice...madness eh?!! - but people do it!!
2007-02-13 08:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, that depends on his situation. But he could get a card for what 50 cents. But since my bf is fine, then no it wouldn't be okay. He knows exactly what kind of girl I am, and he knows that he better come correct.
2007-02-13 08:40:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he had something more important at that time.. ! Getting gifts now and then isn't anything new for us! ;) So get double of it later! Anyways being with him that special day is more lovable than any gift... Am not right??
2007-02-13 08:43:52 · answer #9 · answered by krishna c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no card? no a s s. just kidding. i would probably be disappointed at first, but then i would think about it and come to the conclusion that he still loves me and he doesnt need to buy me a card to show it. even if it is nice.
2007-02-13 08:54:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't mind. Actually my boyfriend isn't getting me anything. Awhile ago I would have been pretty annoyed, but it really doesn't mean anything to him, and he is always sweet on our anniversaries, which do mean something to him, as well as on my birthday, so I don't complain.
2007-02-13 08:45:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋