I love my wife and I havent had an affair in many years, but this girl is deliberately trying to seduce me!
2007-02-13 08:15:01 · 29 answers · asked by Heywood 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to start acting professional and impersonal. Stop all flirting and let her know that you love your wife and don't want any guilt in your life. You might even want to start acting like a jerk to her so she'll stop the seduction. If you cannot resist this girl, start looking for another job or relocate!!!!!! Trust me, this girl is not worth losing your dignity or your trusting, loving wife. The cute girl will not be there when stuff goes wrong in your marriage. Then what? You don't have a wife and don't have the cute girl either. You know what to do.
2007-02-13 08:26:38 · answer #1 · answered by Junebug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because one woman is trying to seduce you, your considering an affair? Do you realize how many men try to seduce women every single day?!!! If we considered having an affair everytime a hot guy "tried to seduce" us, there would be no such thing as monogomy. You need to rethink your value system, you sound pathetic.
2007-02-13 08:42:13 · answer #2 · answered by G&L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please don't do it. After my husband's 2nd affair with the same woman, I ended our marriage of 22 years. I had no more trust, love, or respect for him. I was devastated. Oddly enough, they are no longer together and he is obviously lonely and regrets his choice--but I no longer care. I guess what I'm saying is that aside from the heady excitement of being with someone new and the boost it gives your ego, will it be worth it in the long run? Only you can answer that question...and having been there, you probably already know the answer...
2007-02-13 08:36:18 · answer #3 · answered by PJ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, you've cheated before. Do this, have the affair with miss hottie and let Karma do its work. I LOVE Karma!!!
This is how it usually works. Your wife can actually have a loving husband and someone she deserves. (Not you of course - your a louse!) Then miss hottie can cheat on you or you come down with a fearsome STD or whatever fate chooses for you. Oh, life can be so cruel when you end up getting what you deserve.
2007-02-13 08:29:50 · answer #4 · answered by Get it Together 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you really love your wife, tell her to get lost. It is possible for men to be sexually harassed, you know.
Wanting to be desired is natural, wanting to know you still have something to offer is as well. Your wife has those same needs and you know it's much easier for a woman to get laid than it is for a man. So how would you feel if the roles were reversed?
2007-02-13 08:33:21 · answer #5 · answered by Amada 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And you should leave your wife and tell you that you are involved in an affair. Every spouse deserves a faithful partner....... temptation is everywhere, all the time, constantly., year in and year out.. we hav e all been there, or are there every day........ You can remain honorable, or become a bed hopper, but let your wife know, so she can rid herself of such a cad as you and find someone worthy of her trust, passion , admiration and respect.... you ain't it.
2007-02-13 08:21:03 · answer #6 · answered by April 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do you even care that your cute coworker has the hots for you? You're MARRIED! Keep your pants on around all females other than your WIFE!
2007-02-13 08:22:43 · answer #7 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Next time you feel "weak"., picture your wife in a work closet hot and heavy with the hottest guy at work and then her sweet ol' self coming home to you., like nothing happened.
Really picture that, maybe you wont do it.
Or just listen to that good ol tune "Whose making love to your ol' lady, while you were out making love?"
God - I hope your wife isnt that dumb. It sounds like you have cheated on her before.
2007-02-13 12:41:14 · answer #8 · answered by Mammamia3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think cheating is the right thing to do? Hurting your wife? Maybe this coworker is a plant that your wife has hired to see what you would do? So... do you feel lucky, punk?
2007-02-13 08:27:47 · answer #9 · answered by Pandora 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have told her no the first time she started flirting with you.. Of course.. I'm sure you didn't egg her on or anything... How would you like some other guy doing the same thing with your wife.. and hitting on her? Would you appreciate that.. or do you consider that different ?
2007-02-13 08:28:58 · answer #10 · answered by xjaz1 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋