...really like her boyfriend. I'm serious. I've never seen the guy because he is like 1500 miles away, but we've talked like 3 times and we have TOO MUCH in common.
He told my firend that we were friends and I told her the same. But I think I relly like him. I could actually talk to him comfortably which I normally cant do with anybody.
What do I do????? My friend LOVES the guy. She's only 14 and thinking about their future. LIKE WEDDING FUTURE!!!!! How do I handle this??? I need help in general. no specific question. just advice.
For those who are going to say back off he's your friends boyfriend, I'll say this:
I KNOW HE LIKES HER!!! THATS WHY HE IS HER BOYFRIEND NOT MINE!!!! but what should I do??? How can I stop liking him?!?!?!?! If my friend finds out I am skrewed!!!!!
2007-02-13 08:00:48 · 10 answers · asked by Catholic 14 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
okay it is my friend who wants to marry him not me!!! Yes she is thinking about it
yes he is 1500 miles away from both of us.
so what do i do
dont say just be his friend because thats what i'm trying to do but cant
Thats why Im on the site
2007-02-13 08:27:33 · update #1
look he's never seen me and if he did it would make him want my friend more (not that I'm really ugly just not hot)
he thinks i'm just his friend and thats all I want to be. I dont want to like him cuz this friend of mine is my only real friend.
plus there are no other guys out there that would like me. all the girls in my class are prettier than me. so they are going to date them first
GET IT!!! I DONT WANT TO LIKE HIM!!!!!
2007-02-13 08:34:03 · update #2
don't do it,
i speak from experience.
i did the same thing to my friend and bad news, it did not work out and me and my friend are no more.
it just ain't worth it.
sorry wish i had something good to say, well i do you still have a friend.
more that i can say for myself
2007-02-13 08:08:36 · answer #1 · answered by exterminator6969 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you've only talked to this dude three times, you are obviously infatuated with him.
Do not speak with him again; cut off all communication.
Find someone else to focus your attentions on.
Sometimes you just have to suck it up and like someone and not have it returned. Unfortunately, it is a good lesson for later in life because trust me, at some point, unrequited love happens to everyone!
NEVER tell your friend about this until after they break up. Even after they break up he is NOT fair game.
You may want to hang out with another friend for a few days... perhaps then you'll meet another Mr. Right!
2007-02-13 08:33:46 · answer #2 · answered by Goose&Tonic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one thing, ask yourself this,
would you want your friend to do the same, and if he is talking to you like that, i am sure there is others he is talking to.
in my opinon, you cant help the way you feel, but think befor you act, try and avoid him, try not to ask about him. if your not chating than you should get over him, i mean you said only three times yall talked rite? or was there more. and is he worth it? would you rather him be there forever next to you? or will he just be another man, another boy, that will cheat on you the first chance he gets.
he is how far away? i bet there is alot of other girls in his life, but he is probley saying "no i dont do that, i am shy" or "no when do i have the time to talk to anyone else" or "i am not like that" you tell him to go ....... you know know
2007-02-13 08:10:11 · answer #3 · answered by april 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um... he lives 1500 miles away.....just be his friend. What's wrong with that?
Does he live 1500 miles away from your friend too? I hope not if she's talking about marrying him.
To which I must say that 14 is way too young to choose a spouse.
2007-02-13 08:06:57 · answer #4 · answered by sempurvivum 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl im sorry but i got to say this.BACK OFF, he's your friend's boyfriend. I know it's hard. But how would you like it if someone did the same to you. Well try and not think of him.
Get yourself busy in sport, homework or something fun hobbies to get him off your mind. Try meeting new boys. I'm sure there are plenty out there who things in common with you. And more attractive. Try bringing this topic up with your friend. Pretend like you have a cousin,,who has a friend. And your cousin's hitting on your cousin's friend. And see what kind of advice your friend can give to you. Probably you'd know what to do.
Anytime your friend talks of her boyfriend, always put in you mind that, he's my friend's boyfriend and i wouldn't want anyone to do that to me. But don't even think about hooking up with him. Even God forbid, they break up
2007-02-13 08:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are sooo young. Why wedding talk. Go for the guy, I promise she has almost no chance of marrying a guy she is dating at 14!
2007-02-13 08:05:48 · answer #6 · answered by BooBoo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wanna know what's worse? twins that love you and you cant pick which one you want :P 1500 miles away?? love him?? stay friends missy, being that far away isn't really what i call a gf/bf relationship
2007-02-13 08:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by Amaris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do that. Is nothing sacred to you? You should be ashamed for even thinking that. How would you like the same thing to happen to you? Get a grip..
2007-02-13 08:05:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Relax. At this great distance, and this degree of contact, it shouldn't be too hard to keep yourself out of his view.
2007-02-13 09:23:32 · answer #9 · answered by Wise Advice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be friends with him. you're too young to be thinking about getting married.
she'll probably get rid of him soon anyway.
2007-02-13 08:09:47 · answer #10 · answered by michelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋