7th grade bully problems! HELP ME THIS INSTANT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Question

There's this kid in my class and he's SUPER annoying. I'm 4'9 and he's 5'10 and he like physicaly hurts me. Not terribly but just like shoving or pushing. We are 12 years old and in 7th grade. He makes fun of me by calling my "Flatty" cause I'm flat in the chast area. He calls me names like "Dousch bag" and dirty names like that. I tell him off by saying "STOP IT RIGHT NOW!" Or I look him in the eye and I threaten him by saying "If you don't shut up I'm reporting you!" I ALWAYS stand my ground and I'm not the type of girl who's to quiet and just let's a bully shove her around. I told my mom about this and she called the guidence councelor and the councelor talked to the bully and nothing changed. In science class he kicks my chair repetedly. He makes fun of me when I get an answer wrong and he calls me "twiggy" cause I'm too skinny. He calls me "Fairy feet" cause my feet are small. (size 3.5) And he's ALWAYS making fun of me. Why? I KNOW he doesn't love me or anything so don't say that

Answer 1

Just pull a Jim Carrey on him, say real loud in class, "NO, I will not go out with you no matter how much money you offer me."or "NO you can not try on my panties, you lard a-=", say it real loud, if he continues ask your Dad to have a chat with him. Fathers Live for this kind of thing. Are you sure he dosen't have the hots for you? iT REALLY SOUNDS LIKE THIS GUY HAS A CRUSH ON YOU AND IS TO IMMATURE TO KNOW HOW TO ACT. Negative attention is better than no attention

Answer 2

I had the exact same problem.Using physical force only gets you in more trouble, and fighting back by calling him names does not work for sure! Talking to the guy doesn't seem to help because he feels that what you are saying is an empty threat. I know something like ignoring him is almost impossible, but pretending to ignore him is okay. Seeing that the jokes he tells you do not effect you will make him cease. Your school should have a disipline program, and he should go to it instead of talking to a guidance counsilor. It is about time that your school should punish him more for hurting you. And you shouldn't be afraid of his height, the fact that there r witnesses around makes him think that he should not punch you. You did the right things, but adding more should help.

P.S.- I forgot, keeping your distance( about 2-3ft) should help the pushing. And he does this because he feels superior to others.

Answer 3

If someones child is a bully then THEY need to be bullied. They should get beat with a belt and then thrown in a hot tub of water. They when they get out a hard slap on the back and but. Then force the child to stay in their room for the whole day and they only get to leave 2 times 1 time to eat and 1 time to use the bathroom. No human being deserves to be bullied

Answer 4

I suggest you tell every single authority figure at your school that may be able to influence the situation - principal, vice principal, guidance counselor (again), each teacher you share a class with this kid with, etc.

There's an old saying, "the squeaky wheel gets the grease" and it's true. Make the staff at your school aware of the problem.

Best to you.

Answer 5

Ok I know exactly how you feel coz I'm in year 7 (that's what we call it in England) or in other words the 7th grade and I used to get picked by an 8th grader who used to call me 'hunchback' because i walked funny and he used to call me a 'tranny' coz i'm a tombot and don't act like a girl. Anyway first I threntened him right and I said 'if you don't stop callin me that i'm gonna egg your windows on halloween' and he didn't stop so me and my friends went and silly stringed his dad's car and I chunked a few eggs at his house and from then on he didn't say anything to me. But I'm not saying you should go and egg that boy's windows (though it helped me) coz you'll get in mega big trouble (see the only reason i didn't get in trouble was coz my mum and dad never found out lol) but you what you could say things like 'that's it if you don't stop pickin on me yeah i'm gonna get my brother to beat you insides out' or something like that but why let your brother have all the fun do it yourself or join in lol. Oh yeah and you could always ive him a taste of his own medicine couldn't you oh yeah and it's true that he don't like you coz that would be a little 1st grade if he picked on you coz he like you don't you think and if you was here in England i could of beaten this goon up for you-we the people getting (or who got) bullied need to stick together right? No Seriously

Answer 6

Have your mom call the principal at once and raise holy hell with the school. This kid is a sicko and needs help. It's not something you're expected to handle. Also feel free to hit him as hard as you can, like a punch in the mouth. Some creeps never learn any other way and sometimes you just have to do what you have to do to protect yourself. Good luck.

Answer 7

First, I would like to congratulate you on your moxie! I wish I had been more like you in 7th grade.

It's great your mom called the guidance counselor (although with less than desirable results). Ask (insist) your mom go with you to the counselor's office and have a face-to-face meeting and discuss more actions. Perhaps the bully's parents need informed.

If the guidance counselor blows this off (hopefully that won't happen, and it doesn't seem like he/she would), then you and your mom get a meeting with the principal.

Good luck and kick some figurative butt!

Answer 8

The only reason he picks on you is because he knows it gets to you. He knows that because you've shown him, by getting upset. He's looking to get a rise out of you, and he's GETTING what he's looking for. Try turning the tables on him......next time just laugh in his face and turn around and walk away. DO NOT show fear, or insecurity. Do Not let him think he is getting to you, in any way, shape or form. Don't look at him, or talk to him, or even acknowledge his presence. Start thinking of him in the same terms as a fly on the wall. He's trying to make himself look "bigger" by belittling you. If you don't give him what he wants, he'll probably get bored with trying and go pick on somebody else.

Answer 9

It I were you, I'd tell the principle, or kick his A$$, but I think you'd get in trouble with the second one, so just got o the principle, and demand some help, they'll have to deal with it sooner or later, and who knows, he may be hurting someone else too, so you may be helping them out be getting the bully into a little trouble.

Answer 10

Your mom needs to call the principal of the school and get this resolved. Sexual harassment and bullying should not be tolerated at any school. Good luck, being petite is cute I have a petite daughter and she is perfect the way she is.