I have been with my fiance for almost 5 years, we have two children, and were very happy. But we never talk about marriage, how do I know when the perfect time to start talking about it?
2007-02-13 07:50:01 · 8 answers · asked by Sammy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you want to ruin the good thing you have going...bring it up tomorrow on Valentine's Day!!!
Why try to fix something if it's not broke??
2007-02-13 07:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by Back in the game... 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There isn't such thing as a "perfect time". Depends on how you feel about "marriage", and what you're looking for. I personally would not be having children unless I was married - not out of some "moral" principle, but simply because it makes my life easier: if I'm going to have a "family", I want ALL the benefits of it, including social and legal (which marriage provides). But if you're ok with living together and having kids together - why bother getting married? It really depends on you. If both of you want to get married - the perfect time is now.
2007-02-13 16:45:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was time to get married two kids ago. Go to the Justice of the Peace and get married tomorrow.
2007-02-13 15:59:50 · answer #3 · answered by Matt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There isn't going to be a perfect time. If you want to get married, then it's time to start talking about it. If you feel like it's time, then it's time... Good luck!
2007-02-13 15:54:51 · answer #4 · answered by SusanDLynn 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you stupid or an idiot. That special lady give you 2 treasure in the world and you are thinking if you should marry her. what kind of man are you. You are a disgrace to all man.
2007-02-13 16:03:25 · answer #5 · answered by wiser 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just bring it up and guage her reaction. If its good then you know that its the right time. If she just advoids the conversation then she might need more time or have commitment issues. You just need to start by talking about it.
2007-02-13 15:58:58 · answer #6 · answered by Worried wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why get married?.Are you happy now? If so, then don't spoil it
2007-02-13 16:26:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would've been sometime before your first child was CONCEIVED!
2007-02-13 16:24:47 · answer #8 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋