when i was in highschool..i was 15y/o by then when i had a lesbian close friend..we're close and it comes up to the point that we have the relationship at young age. the relationship lasts for a year with no sex since we are still young by that time and doesnt know what are we really up to in regards of our sexuality. when i moved in to college...at 17y/o, i had a bf....that last for 3years...with consistent sex. and now am 21...i'm confused...coz there are times that i found myself looking at sexy girls and fantsized them...and vice versa with boys......help!!! advice or share your experienced to enlighten my mind???
2007-02-13 07:43:32 · 21 answers · asked by pink_thenewpunk 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you may find that you are bisexual i know severla women that have gone through this and found out that is true i wish you the best of luck bisexuality is widely more accepted nowadays
2007-02-13 07:47:19 · answer #1 · answered by Mark R 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Right now you might simply be bi curious. It is not full blown bisexual it having some interest in girls and wanting to try some stuff out. you could ask her who her girl celebrity crush is. I'm a bisexual girl in a judgemental school. But talk to the people you really trust, theyll just be like oh ok, trust me. But be careful some girls are just very flirtatious try to get people to play spin the bottle with a hope that you can kiss her and then talk to her about it later. Or you can play truth or dare. I really hope it works out. It can get really confusing :/ but just go with how you feel and tease her back as she does to you. You touch her, and start to do things of the such. Show that you are interested and she might take it as a sign to show you're ok with it and you like her too. Good luck (:
2016-03-29 05:11:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, sit down for a minute and hear(read in this case) me out please. Despite the fact that almost NO "straight" guy would ever admit to having even a small sexual fantasy WITH another guy, it happens for BOTH genders! When I turned 20, one of my closer friends form school informed me that all this time he's been gay. No problems here right? Well, the he told me about all his little fantasies between himself and a few other guys from school. Yes, myself included. Flattered(and slightly startled though I was, I personally felt fine with this simply because of who I am. What you're feeling is just fine for yourself. Go out and ask yourself "can I see MYSELF with another woman and a boyfriend too?" If the answer is yes, then don't feel bad or even scared or that you're a freak or something! Your perfectly fine! To be REALLY blunt, let me say this: Go out and get laid already! Find a nice gal and find out how much fun sex with a man and a woman(separately or together, your choice) really is! If you don't like it, then no harm, no foul! Live your life, not someone ELSE'S idea of what your life should be!
2007-02-13 08:02:52 · answer #3 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a weird world, The images we see make us think and feel things. If you don't want to be Bi. Turn your head away, change your mind. I had a phase of this. Sex is much deeper than the act. Men love sex. Evidently he thinks your great. I would say more ,but i don't want men to fed on the details. GOD BLESS
2007-02-13 08:06:02 · answer #4 · answered by TCC Revolution 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to ever know for sure is to explore your feelings and see which feelings bring you more personal satisfaction. That's really the only advice that will help you in the long run.
The most important thing in life is to know yourself. Once you truly know who you are and are comfortable with yourself, things will flow naturally and you'll be able to deal with whatever comes your way, whether you're straight, gay or bi.
2007-02-13 08:02:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you love who you love regardless of gender. If you meet a girl and want a relationship with her... then have one. Or if you meet a boy and want a relationship with him....have one. Don't put yourself into a category. Just do what makes you happy no matter what.
Do not let society dictate what you feel or believe. You do not have to define your sexuality to be happy. And if people want to judge you...Screw them.
Good luck.
2007-02-13 07:48:56 · answer #6 · answered by Should be Working! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends if you are looking at the girls thinking wow their pretty or thinking "wow I'd hit that" if it is the 2nd one, and you are attracted to guys romantically/sexually then you are bi
2007-02-13 07:49:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you did in the past doesn't necessarily count...but you say that you are sexually checking out men and women now..so that makes me think that you are bi.
2007-02-13 08:13:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you are perfectly straight. personally all girls i know have lesbian momments. thats the way the cookie crumbles!
2007-02-13 07:55:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're bi hun. Easy as that. If you like BOTH then you are BISEXUAL. Thats what bi means....being attracted to both sexes.
2007-02-13 07:46:20 · answer #10 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋