We met some nice people about 12 years ago, and we would meet on a saturday night for all that time,then twelve months ago was the last time we saw them ,they live a good hours drive distance from us,and through the year I would have rang maybe six times , and would have a normal chat but they would never ring us .Nothing happened between us ,but neither were we given any explanation as to why they stopped coming to our club and meeting with us , They would have their own friends in their own area , my husband said we should give them a call ,I say no leave it be . They know our phone number . I think its easy to pick up the phone and make a call nobody is that busy .
2007-02-13 07:30:12 · 7 answers · asked by MILLION DOLLAR QUESTION 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Any calls that were made I made them .
2007-02-13 07:41:24 · update #1
Iwould know they are ok .
2007-02-13 07:42:23 · update #2
It was EVERY saturday night
2007-02-13 10:00:10 · update #3
Yes give them a call? If there seems to be a strain with the conversation ask them if you have done something to offend them? If everything is fine then you may have to accept they aren't the type to phone just for a chat. From your posting I am unsure if you saw them on a Sat now and again or if you were with them every Sat Night? If you were the latter then it is a bit of a strange situation and I admit awkward for both parties not having been in touch for so long. Still as the saying goes 'nothing ventured nothing lost' it's only a phone call. Why not get your husband to make it since he is the one that is more wanting to make contact?
2007-02-13 09:22:30 · answer #1 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ponder anymore.
Pick the phone up and ring them.
If they don't seem that they want to chat (you know really busy at the moment, etc) give them a time to RING YOU - if they don't then theres your answer.
If they seem really pleased to hear from them you, Try to arrange a night out and see how it goes from there.
Too many friendships fall by the wayside waiting for the other side to make contact.
Important thing to remember - don't assume they no longer want to be friends with you.
2007-02-13 07:59:07 · answer #2 · answered by barneysmommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say give them a call. If you haven't heard from them in 12 months, then of course call to check on them. If you are friends even in the smallest way, they deserve a call, don't be stubborn, maybe there has/is an illness or death or something tragic that has kept them from contacting you. Call them and check and if after this they still don't call then let it go.
2007-02-13 07:35:49 · answer #3 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should ring them if only to put your minds at rest that they are ok.You never know something may have happened in their lives that has made it hard for them to ring you......good luck.
2007-02-13 07:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by sarah y 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would call them and ask politly why they havent called you, see what they say and from then on, dont call them, let the cal you
2007-02-13 09:15:03 · answer #5 · answered by esco275 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try it one last time and drop a hint as to why they havent been intouch like 'god you must have been busy, i havent heard from you in a while,
2007-02-13 10:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by princesspink1984 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give them a call nothing to loose that you aint missing anyway
2007-02-13 07:38:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋