2007-02-13 07:11:59 · 18 answers · asked by abii 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
i am actually in love with him, but he is so unromantic unlike me, tht i have kept my feelings to myself. I dont know if he is in love with me... we havent discussed tommorow, im wondering how to go about it. just pretend there isnt a special day for lovers?
2007-02-13 07:20:34 · update #1
If you don;t act like your not in love, well then, your not. So don't worry about somethng romantic. Just do something that you and him both enjoy and just spend time with each other.
2007-02-13 07:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by sassiegrl89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Acting in love and being in love are totally different things. Love is a choice not a feeling. Feelings change, but choices change when you change your mind. You can let your feelings change your mind, or you can be committed. If your relationship isn't overly affectionate, and that's okay with you, then don't make it something it's not. Hang out...Valentine's Day is just another day. You don't have to make it something that it isn't if you aren't in a place to be overly affectionate.
2007-02-13 15:16:21 · answer #2 · answered by K-men mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get married bc you act married already.lol seriously though that is normal if you have been together for long of periods of time. Go rent a hotel and spend the night or so there and get dinner and get one with a jaquizzy and just do things that you normally would not do in the bed room. if you are old enough.
2007-02-13 15:15:31 · answer #3 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you want to do for valentines day. Are you in love with each other? If so then don't worry how you are suppose to act there are no rules for it. Just as long as you are you.
2007-02-13 15:14:56 · answer #4 · answered by kingsgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that u and your boyfriend should sit down and have a talk about y u guys don't act like your in love if u do love him get him something k but if u don't don't get nothing if u guys don't act like your in love then u r probably not
-Courtney-
2007-02-13 15:18:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my fiance is totally un romantic and i am a big old sap. but valentines day to us is just a night out at a nice restaurant and a few glasses of wine and an excuse to just be with each other. just treat it like another day if you want or do like i do and get taken out for a nice dinner.
2007-02-13 15:16:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mark the occasion by breaking up. What do you mean by "totally in love"? either you or you aren't. if it's not there, tell each other "it's been great" and go find someone that you ARE totally in love with.
2007-02-13 15:16:06 · answer #7 · answered by bodinibold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still find a friendship card etc.. He's the boyfriend.. What does he plan to do for you on Valentines? Plan on going dutch?
2007-02-13 15:15:38 · answer #8 · answered by xjaz1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same boat. dont really know what to do. probably just give him one of my sons car valentines or something. maybe a back rub too.
2007-02-13 15:14:57 · answer #9 · answered by shadowpaws2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok this is hard for me babe. I have been thinking about this for a while, and now is the time. I love you and want to spend my life with you forever.... I Love you and can't be without you. Will You Marry Me Kate??
2007-02-13 15:14:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋