Stan is my best friend. We're both gay, and now he wants to leave his wonderful Florida life to move to New York City. He has no job lined up there, but he's got a good job here. He has no place to stay up there, but he owns his own house here. I care about him so much. I don't want him to get hurt in the Big Apple. What should I do?
2007-02-13 07:06:19 · 9 answers · asked by C-Bag 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Let him go! You're missing the big picture: this way you can live in the (mostly) wonderful Florida climate, but you'll have a place to stay for free when you want to visit NYC! Plus, if he has a cute, straight brother who'll be staying in his house when he goes to New York, it'll be easier for you to go over there and try and seduce him without Stan cramping your style! So, quit whining and focus on the positive: the c-bag is half full, not half empty!
2007-02-14 04:18:26 · answer #1 · answered by mrsullenbeauty 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 08:19:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, NYC is great, there is a whole lot of diversity and acceptance there. It must be hard to let him go though, have you ever considered going with him? Its a really nice city. You could tell him to at least wait until he has arrangements set up there, or maybe go check the city out for a few days before tottally making up his mind, You know? then maybe he will see its not for him and he doesn't like it.
I hope eveyrthing turns out oaky.
2007-02-13 07:14:08 · answer #3 · answered by OH Whuddup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he just needs to get away.
Advise him not to do anything as rash as selling the house -- yet. Perhaps take a sabbatical or a long vacation from work instead of quitting. If he decides he doesn't like it in NYC he can come back to something -- including, we hope, you.
But that's about all you can do is advise.
Don't try to tie him down to FL, whether he leaves or not he may hold it against ya.
Good luck to both of you!
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2007-02-13 08:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should hit him over the head! He has two, take your pick. The man owns a home and has a stable job in Florida, and nothing in NYC. Explain to him what's going on, and ask him to stay.
2007-02-13 07:12:41 · answer #5 · answered by tinkerbell24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's something he really wants to do, then you cannot change his mind. Wish him the best and stay in touch with him and make sure he knows that if he wants to return to Florida at any time, he can.
2007-02-13 07:23:52 · answer #6 · answered by castle h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stan will be ok in NYC. Support his decision. Then you guys can hop back and forth.....
2007-02-13 08:22:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go, or move with him, unfortunetly I think if he wants to go, nothing is going to stop him. Hes a grown man and makes his own decisions.
2007-02-13 07:13:57 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_treat101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a looser to me. I say, good bye and good riddance.
2007-02-13 07:36:30 · answer #9 · answered by Martin P 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋