things have continuasly gone wrong and when they go good for second its gone just like that
2007-02-13 06:56:44 · 12 answers · asked by :( 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you continue to do what your doing, your going to continue to get what you been getting!!!
2007-02-13 07:06:46 · answer #1 · answered by Secretlyfe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody says things always go right. I'm sorry that you feel so overwhelmed. It's only a small time in your life. Nothing lasts forever. Remember, bad days don't define you if you don't let it. I know that's hard. I've had a few bad days...when things could just not get any worse, but it's my choice if I'm going to let those things change the direction of my day, and change me. Don't let those things in. Find your smile. Whatever brings that smile...whether it's real, or just a hope of something real...focus on that.
Don't walk around with your head down. You may miss the next thing that makes you smile.
You'll find your way...just hang on.
Chin up.
2007-02-13 07:03:36 · answer #2 · answered by K-men mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Often it is hard to get out of that rut once you are in. Now is a good time to sit and reevaluate what you feel is not going right for you. It would behoove you to perhaps make a list of all that you feel puts you in the dumps. Then decide from that list whether you feel you are at fault or not. If it involves other people, get their opinion. Then start with the smallest thing on the list and work to change it for the better. Work your way up. If you are having financial problems, google for help in your area (food stamps, etc..) If it is relationship troubles, contact counseling to help you deal with putting your relationship back on track. If you are depressed, speak with someone that can help you figure out why so. And remember, I know it sounds trite..but negative thoughts ultimately produce negative outcomes. It may be difficult, but if you try very hard to change your outlook, YOU WILL make a change for the better in more ways than one. You will make it! Good Luck!
2007-02-13 07:03:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I learned a long time ago to not expect things to go smoothly no matter what. I don't allow myself to get too happy about anything because it can be taken away or change into a problem. It's just how life is sometimes and you take the bad with the good. I don't stop trying and if my good goes bad then I work to make it good again and I'm fine from then on. Whatever you do don't give up!!!!
2007-02-13 07:02:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try looking at all the good in your life instead of the bad. I'm sure that even though you feel like everything is going wrong, it really isn't. Hang in there - and list all the good in your life when you think it's nothing but bad. That will give you a better perspective on life.
2007-02-13 06:58:51 · answer #5 · answered by lifesajoy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without bad things to compare with, we wouldn't have a concept of what good things are. However.....
Please consider that you may be clinically depressed (due to illness, stress, environmental influences or chemical imbalances in your body) which would influence your outlook greatly and which is very treatable. You might want to discuss this with your doctor.
Also, you may be living in an environment or social circle that simply is not good for you (and probably not good for anyone) and things may really be going wrong. Give this some thought and if you think it is the case please contact a hotline, social worker, counselor, clergy,etc...ASAP!!!
Good Luck!!! Bless You!!!
2007-02-13 07:10:21 · answer #6 · answered by c. l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay positive! i think that the bad things happen because of our attitude. And if things still go wrong, learn from it so if it happens again you can take a different approach.
Make decisions that are right for you, you have to live your life no one else
2007-02-13 07:01:05 · answer #7 · answered by sgreenslade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. Just keep in there. Exercise always helps. you feel good after. Scream in a pillow. Hang with funny friends.
2007-02-13 07:01:06 · answer #8 · answered by chelsea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think negative results will be negative. simple as that. now get into a positive mode
2007-02-13 06:59:35 · answer #9 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please elaborate?!?!? Life is full of ups and downs. It's not as bad as it seems though, someone is always going through worse. What in particular is biting you??? Add details. Whatever you do, don't kill ya self. Please.
2007-02-13 07:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by Muchacha Mala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋