the people on answers have made me feel so guilty by the things they said,that i can't live with myself for having sex with my sisters boyfriend. i just can't look at myself. i am shamed
2007-02-13 06:55:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It was kind of a turn on for me I have to admit. If you would feel better not saying anything to your sister then don't, but I just hope that he won't say anything to her first. Don't feel ashamed.
2007-02-13 07:46:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everybody makes mistakes and in the grand scheme of things this isn't the worst thing that could ever happen. You didn't kill anybody, after all.
Your sister's gonna be really pissed at you for awhile, there's no getting around that. All you can do is continue to tell her how sorry you are and ask her forgiveness.
Hopefully as time passes and her pain subsides, you'll be able to joke about it with her. You could even jokingly suggest to her that you'll be her "gay meter" for potential future boyfriends so that she can ensure this doesn't happen again.
2007-02-13 15:40:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well dude that was pretty low man, but what is your sister doing going with a bi or gay guy who is so low as to have sex with his girls brother.
You cannot get out of doing what you did. You did it out of purely selfish sexual desire and want VERY SHALLOW OF YOU!
Now you have a big problem is now what do you do? Do you confess or lie and somehow make up a lie to expose the looser boyfriend so your sister is not at risk with this jerk.
If you do out him you will probably be outed or other wise you lie more and let what ever happens to your sister happen at the cost of your cowardliness.
2007-02-13 19:14:23 · answer #3 · answered by Crampy Grampy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are straight, then "take pills AND jump off the roof." (Just kidding; don't hurt yourself.) But you should ashame of yourself. You are an evil.
If you are gay. Well, sisters competing for a man is not strange. You should ashame of yourself, too, but you don't need to "take pills or jump off the roof."
2007-02-13 16:12:46 · answer #4 · answered by Henry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do that. Jumping off the roof may not work, you'll probably just hurt yourself, pass on the pills too. Get rid of the mirrors and go out and find someone to take your mind off of it.
2007-02-13 15:11:55 · answer #5 · answered by ron s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe you're all that ashamed. Anyway, it was your sister's boyfriend who made the play for you. These things happen. Wouldn't you like to be able to pry into the secret transgressions of all these holier and more righteous than thou people who are so quick to condemn you to see what "sins" are lurking in their closets?
2007-02-13 16:12:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should kick her boyfriend's *** for cheating on her and then appologise to your sister for your part in what happened. You don't need to commit suicide. The world will still have plenty of assholes wether you are here or not.
2007-02-13 15:05:31 · answer #7 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Grow up you nelly queen. You play you pay, so keep pants on where family is concerned.
Besides I suggest a warm bath and razor blades. Enjoy
2007-02-13 21:07:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like my husband told me, no one is perfect and everyone makes mistakes! Just make sure to tell your sister what happened, and since he hit on you first, that will tell her what kind of boyfriend she has. All you can do is apologize to her and assure her that it will never happen again. And DON'T LET IT HAPPEN AGAIN!!
2007-02-13 15:09:28 · answer #9 · answered by tinkerbell24 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should feel guilty. Why would do such a thing to your sister? I don't think that you should resort to suicide, that's a little extreme. You should talk to someone.
2007-02-13 15:26:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋