He is this neighborhood kid and he's about 14 but I'm 16. I caught him peeping through a little gap in the curtains in my bathroom when I got out of the shower so he saw all of me. He knew I saw him and ran away. I was going over to tell his mother so I walked over to where he lives but he came to the door and started begging me not to tell and that his father would kill him. He said he would never do it again and if I didn't tell he would be my slave. I told him I would think about it. What should I do? Also if he became my slave what should I make him do? Or should I just tell? Or forget the whole thing? I'm still kind of mad about it though.
2007-02-13 06:53:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Unless he has done something else too that you aren't saying, I would say let it go, just this once. He's just a kid checking things out, ya know? I am not saying what he did was right -- but that seriously could have been the first time he ever saw a woman nude in "real life."
If he does it again, go to YOUR parents first (if you are comfortable with it) and then they will probably want to go with you to talk to his parents.
Good luck!
2007-02-13 07:10:32 · answer #1 · answered by mistaken4sane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Given the age of the boy, I personally would tell his parents. I say this because this child has some serious voyeurism issues. Since he is young his parents can get him the help he needs to keep him from becoming a rapist, pedafile, or sexual predator in the future.
It is likely that you are not the only one in the neighborhood that he has spied on. If his curiosity has been peaked he will continue. We heard all the horror stories in the press about Jon Benet Ramsey and Elizabeth Smart. Let us not forget Polly Klaas.
These young women were exposed to the most heinous of crimes and became innocent victims.
Don't play the slave game. He needs professional help soon.
Remember what's done in the dark dies in the light. Don't forget it.You are mad because you have been violated. If you don't stand for something you will fall for anything. Stand up, girl. Tell his parents before it's too late.
2007-02-13 07:05:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would wait to see if he does it again. If he does then you definitely need to talk to his parents. This time maybe you should try calling them and asking for one of his parents telling them that you need to talk to them. If he don't do it again then I really wouldn't do much about it. There is no need for you to make him your slave that is just childish and immature. Be the bigger person in this situation. Don't stoop down to his level. I know that you are mad about this but you have to remember he is just a kid and is curious. That don't make his actions right, but I wouldn't do anything unless he does it again.
2007-02-13 06:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by linsey_runnels 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the newborn has an organic interest that were given the finest of him. once you spot him next, enable him no in an suitable way that his habit is unacceptable and also you may want to tell the authority the subsequent time you seize him peeping on (everybody ). enable him a danger to assert sorry for his dirty deed. Oh by technique of how, your boyfriend ought to discover the challenge extremely amusing, so if you're searching for sympathy, i does no longer turn to him.
2016-11-03 08:52:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, what he did was wrong but you need to lighten up a bit. He's probably a typical 14 years old boy who is just curious about what the female body looks like......seeing you naked probably made him mess his pants....lol. I think you scared him enough for now but make it clear that if he ever does it again you will tell his parents.
2007-02-13 07:00:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it, its not like he took a picture and spread it across the net. forgive the kid hes only 14, but yea i guess you could torture him a bit and make him regret it. i give the kid props that he got a free look lol
2007-02-13 07:16:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can teach this kid a great lesson, tell him if you EVER catch him doing it again you will pull down his pants for payback, then tell EVERYONE at his school the size of his weiner, that would destroy the kid and i KNOW it will stop him from ever doing it again rofl, he won't dare try look again rofl
peace
2007-02-13 07:15:07 · answer #7 · answered by cyclonisz2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell his parents. That is disgusting and unacceptable. Don't let him get away with it, i think you should tell his parents.
He sounds like a real jerk to me, he needs to learn a lesson.
2007-02-13 06:58:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents about it...unless you really don't want to get him in trouble. Or you could tell him that he's seen you and you want return rights.
2007-02-13 06:59:35 · answer #9 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell or he'll be doing some more peep show
2007-02-13 07:15:57 · answer #10 · answered by Tamalee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋