I am almost 6 months pregnant and my husband and i are seriously considering a divorce. I am heart broken, and scared to death. please any words of wisedom, or advice to help me get through this........ it hurts so bad, i have never felt a hurt like this before.
2007-02-13 06:35:46 · 11 answers · asked by NewMommy!!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Im going through the same thing. You wont be able to get a divorce until after the baby is born. Being pregnant is a very emotional time in your life and it is hard to tell what you are truely feeling. I dont know if there is anything I can tell you, this a very rough and emotional time in your life. Start focusing on yourself and doing things to make yourself happy. You will feel better once the baby is born. If you need to talk email me at courtney.armer@yahoo.com
2007-02-13 06:50:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that this must be hard. I went through a divorce as well. You will be fine. There are people that you can talk to like a pastor,priest or a friend. As for the baby you can make it as a single mom I am. Its hard but you will manage. When the baby is born just make sure you have all of the paper work in order. Start to file papers for divorce as soon as possible. You can file for child support as right now. He is obligated to help you out financially on bills of medical. Go visit your local family court they can help you out.
2007-02-13 06:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by beenie 21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On top of being hurt by your husband, you're about to embark on the most difficult thing you're ever going to have to do in your life, that is raising your child. The best advice I can give you is to get help from a mature, reasonable and intelligent adult. Stay close to your family and ask your mom for lots of help. Also, try not to get pregnant again until you are able to take care of yourself and your children.
2007-02-13 06:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by true blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone to talk to. If you can't afford counseling, talk to a friend. Talk to a religious leader, a relative, anyone you feel you can trust. If you can, get counseling for the both of you. The impending birth of a child can put unexpected stress on young couples, stress that they did not expect and are not usually equipped to handle. Also, talk to your doctor because the stress could affect your pregnancy and child birth.
I hope the two of you can work things out. Good luck.
2007-02-13 06:49:40 · answer #4 · answered by HipHopGrandma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i know how u feel because im 16 years old with two kids gettin no kinda help from anyone of thier daddies the frist time it was a mistake the second time i was rap b a 28 year old dont feel like u cant do it by urself because i know how u feel most woman think they can do it but u have to be strong a let him go a tell him if he wants a divore dont think hes gettin off scoot free cause u want childs support
2007-02-13 06:45:13 · answer #5 · answered by sharnica p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be 19 yrs historical while I had my son. Had been with the dad due to the fact that I used to be sixteen, however by the point I used to be round 6 months pregnant he left me. Didnt desire a unmarried factor to do along with his little one. It took me awhile to discover any individual once more. Don't get me flawed I had boyfriends on and off that adored my baby simply as a lot if no more than they cared approximately/adored me. I am now 25 yrs historical, had been married for a year to essentially the most extraordinary guy. I met him while my son used to be 18 months historical. And in these days we expect our second baby in combination. You WILL discover any individual. It simply takes time. Usually while you quit watching, they discover you :)
2016-09-05 08:01:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant imagine how you feel being that i have never been in that situation, but i can give you good words of advice. It may hurt now but time heals all wounds. Let his *** go. if he dont want to be apart of your childs life screw him, collect child support and take care of your baby to your best ability. I wish you luck in all you future endeavors...good luck xoxo
2007-02-13 06:58:16 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Im Eric's Chic♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get marriage counseling. The baby deserves both parents living together under 1 roof.
http://www.marriagebuilders.com/
2007-02-13 06:39:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously consider couples counseling.
Save your marriage, save the world.
2007-02-13 06:38:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a friend of mine went through this too,
she had her Mom & other family members there to
help her, it gave her the confidence to know she could get through it & the help she needed w/ the baby.
If your friends & family are there to help you then
take them up on their offers. Best to you & the baby.
2007-02-13 06:39:56 · answer #10 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋