thoughts and feelings,how about you?
2007-02-13 06:06:57 · 6 answers · asked by woodsonhannon53 6 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
The world is never that simple. It is often best to be optimistic, but you can be too optimistic. Sometimes negative feelings serve a good purpose. You have to realize that you aren't completely in control of your reality, but it's okay not to be. Less than two years ago, I was too optimistic and that lead to a disaster. I ended up not only not getting what I wanted but getting what I never would have wanted in a million years. It wasn't just my thoughts and feelings, but mostly it was. When things than didn't work out like I planed, I got depressed. But even being depressed wasn't all bad. From depression I learned that people loved me more than I had expected and that I could really make a difference in the world. I learned that I could use negative feelings that I couldn't completely control in order to create for myself a better reality. It was both the worse time in my life and the best time in my life. I would not change anything about it. My life seems more real and purposeful now, because of what happened. People aren't meant to be happy all the time. If they were always happy, how much good would they be able to do?
2007-02-13 06:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by Susas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes staying postive being postive is a choice! and it's all in the state of mind!
but not everyone creates there reality <-- they do they just don't see it like that
some let other people and enviromental factors creat there life
what are you proactive jumping the gun to get things done with your life <- i'm not talking dishes or dirty clothes here
or do you wait untill something happends for you to change!
or do you change before that something happends!
i'm still back in forth but over all i am positive and proactive!
2007-02-13 06:12:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 08:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your going to get a rude awakening pretty soon. it's good to have an optimistic attitude about life, but when reality hits, most people can't deal with it. personally i have a pessimistic view of everything, but hope for the best. that way, I'm never surprised.
2007-02-13 06:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by BIG DADDY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reality, only perception. (Gustave Flaubert )
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"Extreme positive" reality could bring pathology , in my opinion.
2007-02-13 09:29:13 · answer #5 · answered by M.C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being positive is all well and good. But when optimism supercedes realism, it becomes a delusion.
2007-02-13 06:32:00 · answer #6 · answered by Subconsciousless 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋