With all the personal experiences I have been threw and know of with others, I am curious if anyone has thoughts if they think the system can be modified? I for one think that the inhereant nature of the system itself produces more negative results on our families and chilldren than is necessary.
2007-02-13 05:51:17 · 4 answers · asked by RealEYES 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is no such thing as a no fault divorce. I think that it should be harder to get a divorce than I am bored . If you are having an affair with someone else , you should have to walk away with the shirt on your back for committing a crime ===you just stole the affection of your wife, or husband and gave it to someone else. You are a thief, what is more important a marriage and family. Or beer and cigarette which if you steal will get you time in jail. It should be manadory to have counciling for at least one year to try and save a marriage. You get help when you go to jail , isn't it worth saving a marriage. Adultry should be prosecuted which it is not like it is nothing. It should take 3 years to get a divorce. You should have to a 1 year of counciling and 1 year of seperation and another year before you could remarry so it made sure you were not just bouncing into another relations ship. This 6 month and 1 year thing is that is all the time it takes to get over what is suppose to be the love of your life. Come on. Vows were taken you didn't buy a toy that you got tired of playing with. If the person that wants to leave would have to leave everything behind but the shirt on his back and have to pay child support maybe he would think about working harder at keeping his marriage together as he or she is to tear it apart to make them happy , the heck with what it does to everyone else.
2007-02-13 07:32:09 · answer #1 · answered by springer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am quite the opposite from your last responder. I have been married twice and divorced twice. Resulting in 15 years of marriage to just be disposed of because they eventually got bored and or lazy. Ive been living alone now 17 years and its far less stress being lonely than stressed from the spouse coming and going like revolving doors.
And yes I agree with you. It is way too easy to get a divorce. I thought the marriage vows was a life long contract. Not till i tire of you or find someone better. You can blame Attorneys and Judges on that one. Its all about the Benjamen's. Lots of profit in marriages and divorces. Especially divorces... But I digress.
Fun to be Americanized huh?
2007-02-13 06:10:10 · answer #2 · answered by Kill_Me_Now! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not fed up with the divorce system. It's the marriage system that must be obliterated. Marriage is, after all, to blame for divorce.
2007-02-13 06:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce has never bothered me a bit. My parents have been married for over 50 years, and my wife and I have been married for 20 years. If you don't get divorced, there are not any "negative results"!
2007-02-13 05:56:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's rediculous that I now have to be separated for an entire year before my divorce will be finalized in Maryland!!!!
2007-02-13 06:15:04 · answer #5 · answered by Back in the game... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋