My girlfriend is dating a guy, and found his wife's myspace page with him in a family photo. Since I am married, she asked me if she should contact the wife or not, what would she say, etc. What should I tell her?
2007-02-13 05:43:30 · 28 answers · asked by I do 26.2 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell your friend to tell the guy she is dating that she isnt interested in seeing him until he can produce divorce papers, if she is looking for a serious relationship. If she is just there for an occasional hookup then tell her not to worry about it. either way he will eventually get caught.
If she talks to her BF, he will probably give her some lame excuse about not being in love with his wife, trying to hang in their for the kids, blah blah blah. Then she will have to decide if she wants to keep getting strung along or not. Contacting the wife will make the whole thing blow sky high and will make two people very angry at your friend.
2007-02-13 05:51:46 · answer #1 · answered by itzmedbd 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If she didn't know he was married I would definitely contact her. If she knew he was married then shame on her. I can bet the family pictures on the wife's myspace depicts a happy family shot. So if she knew he was married she oughta take a good, long and hard look at the picture and get rid of this guy before it's too late. Either way, I'd let the wife know something.
2007-02-13 05:51:55 · answer #2 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Forgive me for saying this but... This sounds like an episode of Jerry Springer Show. Perhaps I can get you the phone number so the two woman can be combatants on Jerry Springer.
First and foremost I would have to wonder why your girlfriend needs to be dating another besides you... Let alone that someone being a married man. Are you not satisfying her?
And yet the plot still sickens that she needs to ruin another mans life contacting his wife? How inhuman can she get?
2007-02-13 06:15:53 · answer #3 · answered by Kill_Me_Now! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are one busy Daddy! I went to your site and can see your schedule is full. Any woman interested (Amberly looks like she is) will see that your daughter comes first. Right now it would be nice for you to have a woman to be a mother to her and a life partner to you, but don't rush things. If a relationship starts and your very young daughter gets attached and it doesn't work out, she will be so hurt and not understand why this woman left her too. She will think it's her fault. Don't take dating lightly, just be there for your little princess, she'll grow up so fast! Before you know it she'll be hooking you up with her friends single Moms! Best of luck! =)
2016-05-24 05:45:37 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what she wants to do....I'm a very evil person so I'd talk to the life and leave hints as to where the two of them would be so the wife can catch the two in person. Or she can be nice and inform the wife that the two of them have been talking or dating or whatever and that the girlfriend will no longer talk to the guy anymore now that the girlfriend knows about the wife.
2007-02-13 05:47:19 · answer #5 · answered by the_wicked_itch_of_the_west 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Please convince your friend to tell the wife. I read where others on here said that the wife already knows, but trust me - as a wife who suspects her husband is cheating but has no concrete proof, I would love for someone to tell me if she knew. For all I know, that could be MY myspace page!
2007-02-13 06:42:56 · answer #6 · answered by starrjellie 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can only say what I would do... I would dump the guy a.s.a.p., and get out of the picture. Most likely, the wife knows more than your friend thinks she does, but for whatever reason she chooses to stay with the guy; let her. Why get in the middle? The messenger often gets shot.
2007-02-13 05:51:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She should DEFINITELY terminate her relationship with this man as he is married. As a wife, would you want to know? Me personally, I think the wife has a right to know - but your friend should use care if she delivers the news - meaning she shouldn't deliver it in a way to that is trying to convince the woman to leave so that the man is free to be with her. Your friend, now that she knows he is married, has no business continuing a relationship with him. I feel bad for your friend, as she certainly got duped by a loser - and I feel bad for his poor wife for having such an unfaithful husband.
2007-02-13 05:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by Marvelissa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She should contact the wife and let her know that her husband has been out cheating. I would want to know if my husband was and I would also like to catch him at it so that there would be no 'he said, she said'. Then she should stop seeing him and look for a nice, single guy to date.
2007-02-13 05:53:00 · answer #9 · answered by Momma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So her bf is married and she had no clue about it? You need to tell her to tell the wife i think she deserves to know what a cheating dog he really is maybe the wife and gf can meet up and invite him somewhere then beat the crap outta him.
2007-02-13 05:54:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋