Do you think this person is a good person?
i have this friend i met her on ,myspace. well she and i started hanging out and she told me she was a swinger. i told her i am not like that. anyways, she told me she was a accountant and then i found out she wasnt and she lied. i keep catching her in lies all the time. she lies to me and i dont know why. then i found out she really is a teller then i found out she is an auditor. she also sleeps with different men all the time she isnt married. i took her out for her bday and paid for her dinner. i gave her a present too. after dinner she took me home and didnt even give me a hug or say thank you i told her a thank you would be nice. she said thank you after i asked her. then i went to give her a hug and she was distant and weird. then she said she is competitive and i told her i am not then said sorry for saying that. Then the other day she came over my house and said that she doesnt know why i get all dressed up she said she is not competitive then the other day she said she was
2007-02-13 05:43:15 · 17 answers · asked by sophie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
'it sounds like she is bad news and she needs to talk to a shrink it's almost like shes suffering from bi-polar and depression that's usually the cause of women who snap out for no reason and sleep around if she does not seek help it will get worst it's sad because if she does suffer from that she can't help how she is but there is only so much you can take, right?
2007-02-13 05:53:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she is a compulsive liar. This is a disease just like Alcoholics and gamblers and she needs professional help. Most compulsive liars know they have a problem but don't know how to stop and would more than likely lie about needing help or getting help. My nephew is one and when he tells me it's raining outside, I actually have to go look for I don't believe a word he says and 90% of his lies are nonsense lies, like how gives a crap kind of lie. Anyway, if you want a relationship with her take her to counseling otherwise leave now before she has you going in circles.
2007-02-13 05:56:55 · answer #2 · answered by sassywv 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex-husband lied to me (and to our therapist) for a minimum of the final 4 years of our 9-3 hundred and sixty 5 days marriage. I stored catching him in a lie, and he would lie his way out of it. that's amazingly damaging on your shallowness whilst somebody tells you that what your gut is telling you ("he's mendacity back!") is misguided. i think of he outfitted up my believe in him, and then i grew to become into unwilling to confess I had made a mistake in trusting him. So, liars would be greater devious than you think of. some human beings have lived double lives for some years in the previous being chanced on, or weren't chanced on till as quickly as they died, or perchance in no way.
2016-10-02 02:07:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she's just plain daft. You're wasted on her and deserve much better. Forget about her - just don't contact her anymore as she's only using you when she wants. Find someone nice - she's a no hoper.
2007-02-13 06:08:55 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a drama king /queen? Why would you even continue to see, spend time, spend energy spend any thoughts ever with someone who has a pattern of lying to you??????? duhhhhhhhhhh sorry, but, this is a no brainer....
A bigger question is why are you still there listening?????????
2007-02-13 05:51:27 · answer #5 · answered by April 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What? Why are you even seeing this woman? Move on and find someone with your interests and appreciates you. What a waste of time with her.
2007-02-13 05:52:12 · answer #6 · answered by NLH823 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't sound like much of a friend to me. If it was me, I would slowly stop contacting her and try to make some new friends.
2007-02-13 05:57:31 · answer #7 · answered by mark my words 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run for your life! Some people like to pretend or want to be something they are not...sad but true...Why would you want a friend like that anyways???
2007-02-13 05:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by peach_tree67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find someone else, she may have std or something, I would look for someone who will not lie about everything, she will always lie thats is her nature.
2007-02-13 05:50:19 · answer #9 · answered by may s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds mixed up and potentially quite dodgy...
You need to have a long think as to whether she deserves your friendship.
2007-02-13 05:56:09 · answer #10 · answered by Matt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋