Ok, I'm 15 and made a mistake with my recent x-boyfriend. Now I haven't had a period for 3 months and I get splitting headaches every day, not to mention my vomiting after eating, but my last 3 pregnancy tests all come out negative. I took them about 3-4 weeks after I had sex with him. Does anybody know what's wrong with me? I would go to a doctor but I don't have any insurance. I also wold go to a walk-in clinic but I have not enough money. I would tell famil or friends but I'm scared they'll open their mouths and tell the world... Somebody please help me...
2007-02-13 05:43:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
If i'm not mistaken, you should be able to go to planned parenthood for help and privacy. But, even if that's the case you should ask them how they can help you with preventive measures for the future. So you don't end up lonely and scared, make your future sex partners wear condoms and use a spermicude in conjunction with them. At 15 you're waaaaaaaaaaaay too young to have to deal with all of the issues of growing up, AND, raising a baby---which might be in your near future. And don't worry about the repercussions of telling your family. If they love you---like I love all 5 of my daughters, they might be mad or disappointed at first but they will get over it. And if you're not pregnant(which I think you might be), please be more
intelligent about sex unless you're ready to be yet another kid raising a kid. Dream about your future with you being something besides a player in some boy's sex tales. Right now you can be anything. Love to you and good luck, babe.
2007-02-13 06:06:40 · answer #1 · answered by www.askaman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stress can definitely make a woman miss a period but you still might be pregnant. I know when I found out that I was pregnant a few of the home pregnancy tests came out negative also so I went to the doctor and got a blood test that came out positive. If you have a planned parenthood clinic near you then that is where you need to go. I don't think they cost money, only a donation if you can. Either way you need to find out if you are pregnant so that you can start getting prenatal care so if you are then your baby will be born healthy. Good luck
2007-02-13 13:54:14 · answer #2 · answered by Belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take another pregnancy test and if it still comes out negative and you do not get a period, girl get yourself to a Dr or a clinic, it would not be the first time that pregnancy does not show on the home tests, some women get pregnant on the pill, and some others while nursing, nothing is safe nor guaranteed. Besides you need to know one way or the other so you can decide what to do accordingly And you should talk to your mom or somebody whom you can trust, you need support.
2007-02-13 13:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by lovesherchina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to get a real pregnancy test from a real doctor - Planned Parenthood is an option, but a doctor can tell you what is wrong if the test comes out negative.
2007-02-13 14:19:33 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please see a doctor. You must have a family member you can confide in, if not then a teacher may help you decide what to do. I can't believe a 15 year old can't tell someone.People generally aren't as judgmental as we assume they're going to be. You really must confide in somebody.If you are not pregnant then be determined you will never make this mistake again. If you want to have sex so young then for God's sake use contraceptives. Children deserve to be born to parents who are emotionally and financially capable of caring for them, not people who are still children themselves, Why don't you let us know how you get on?. Good luck!
2007-02-13 14:58:07 · answer #5 · answered by SUSIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do a pregnancy check again now. And your guilt / anxiety could be giving you tension head aches, upset stomach and cause vomittings too! Worry can affect your period also! So stop worrying and tell your mom or elder sister etc.
Every body makes mistakes and so don't go on dwelling on it.
2007-02-13 13:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by Swamy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRY TO CALM DOWN AND WAIT IT OUT! BUT AT 15 GIRL THE ONLY THING YOU SHOULD BE WORRIED ABOUT IS PROM AND WHAT TO WEAR!! DON'T GET MAD AND THINK I AM TRYING TO TREAT YOU LIKE A BABY I'M JUST TRYING TO TELL YOU THAT WHEN YOU ARE 30 YOU WILL LOOK AROUND AT YOUR LIFE AND WONDER IF YOU WOULD HAVE DONE RIGHT WHEN YOU WERE YOUNGER AND DIDN'T HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT A JOB,BILLS,RENT ETC. WOULD LIFE BE EASIER FOR YOU. I'M TELLING YOU THAT YOU WILL HAVE PLENTY OF TIME FOR BOYS, PREGNANCY TESTS AND SEX!
2007-02-13 13:54:09 · answer #7 · answered by b_rachelk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U might be pregnant I know the samething happien to me.So don't want to long to get the help you need they have a free health clinic so where please find one or tell someone before it's to late. I had a cousin that didn't tell noone until it was to late. her baby was fine, but she had a disease in her right eye.So get u some help.
2007-02-13 14:52:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stress (over this situation perhaps?) can cause missed periods. also-those over-the-counter pregnancy tests aren't always accurate! you NEED to visit a doctor. it won't cost you too much. is there a Planned Parenthood near you?
2007-02-13 13:49:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry...sounds like you should just suck it up and ask your family for help paying to see a doc...
2007-02-13 13:47:12 · answer #10 · answered by cantthinkofauseridsohereitis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋