2007-02-13 05:35:01 · 9 answers · asked by bb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think it is only fair to tell the guy.
But what the hell do you mean get rid of it? If you can't take care of it there is bunches of ppl out there that will take care of it.
2007-02-13 05:41:34 · answer #1 · answered by Selena H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a personal decision, and it can't be decided by a bunch of internet strangers.
The polite and fair thing to do is tell him that he impregnanted you; he does have a right to know this. His response will have a bearing on your decision (for example, he might offer to marry you; to support the child financially; or might deny the child is he is and refuse any support at all). From there, you can then choose the best option for you: raising the child with the father's support or alone; bearing the child but giving it out for adoption; or having an abortion if you are young and the pregnancy will be physically, emotionally, mentally, or financially dangerous for you.
2007-02-13 05:42:29 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he left you, so obviously things aren't right & you guys aren't meant to be, he doesn't care or he found someone else. Whatever the reason...The choice is yours. Decide first if you want to raise a child on your own. If so then tell him. Because he will be held accountable. By law he has to help you support the baby.
2007-02-13 05:59:24 · answer #3 · answered by atcfdrt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why cant you raise the child on your own?
Women do it all the time - Never a good idea to get rid of a child
If you dont want kids then dotn have sex or at least protect yourself
2007-02-13 05:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what your saying is if you keep your baby....he must be on board as well? What happens if he was happy about being a dad and ledft you as soon as the child was born? WHat would you do then? You must decide if your ready to be a parent..even if it means single parent. If your not ready for parenthood...you have options. If you want this child...with or without the father....then have your baby. G'luck!
2007-02-13 05:54:37 · answer #5 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to tell him first, but don't get red of it. It well hunt you in the long run. I gave up 2 baby's and it kills me Evey day. I aways think of them and how they look, what they are doing today. Hon. Please love it, no matter what happens with this Guy.
2007-02-13 06:57:02 · answer #6 · answered by rachell s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a total personal choice. For me I would tell him, not expect anything from him and keep it.
2007-02-13 06:19:52 · answer #7 · answered by The Steele's 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u dfont want ur child to be subjected to him then no dont tell him but if u want him to b part of ur childs life tell him
2007-02-13 05:38:26 · answer #8 · answered by yo_mama_beesh 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
since you call your unborn child "it", i guess it's better to kill the baby now and please get your tubes tie before you kill anymore babies.
2007-02-13 05:45:15 · answer #9 · answered by jean 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋