i had a great life my mom got pregnant to a baby girls shes five months but then her waterbroke she went to the hospital and Olivia my baby sister came out with no heartbeat!!!!!
2007-02-13 05:30:55 · 24 answers · asked by Meagan W 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
I'm so sorry to hear this. It is devastating to lose a member of your family. Your mom is probably very upset right now. You should try to support her, and remind her that this is not her fault. Cry. Get angry. Let it out. Write a poem for her. This will help you to come to terms with your grief. Have a funeral-type ceremony for her. This will make you all feel as if you have a little more closure.
Talk to people who have experienced similar situations. They'll be able to sympathise with you and help you.
2007-02-13 05:39:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could your life be horrible are you glad you dont have a new sister or sad it kinda confusing the way you wrote the question if your sad then talk about it things happen for a reason she might have had a heart defect that would have killed her a few days or years after being born and this is "gods" way of keeping the sadness from hurting even worse. its wrse to have someone in your life and lose them then it is to not have them and know and love them to lose them if that makes sense to you. What i said is its better now then if she grew up to be 2 or 3 and died from something it would make you alot sadder then than now since you didnt get to know her and love her as a person, you may have loved her as a thought or a baby in the tummy but its not that you loved her because you played with her and gave her baths so i guess you could be grateful for that but yes it is still sad that it happened. I suggest being there for your mom talking to her about it she will cry but she needs to talk about it and so do you and your dad just remember that everything happens for a reason if an autopsy is done and they say she had a diesase or defect then it was better that she go now then growing up in pain so i hope all of what i have said makes sense and i wish you and your family the best in moving on
2007-02-13 05:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by sexy b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god that is SO sad I am sorry to hear that and that was a pretty name for your baby sister Olivia. Well She is in a better place now I hope you can understand that, maybe your mom will have a another baby soon when the time is right, right now your mom might be in a phase of depression but you can do for her is be there for your mom and keep on telling her that you love her and you will be their for her she will love that from you, during this time around, Good luck and I am soo sorry about what happened my sorrow
2007-02-13 05:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by j13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I lost my son 1 hour and 50 minutes after he was born. The best way to deal with your greif is to talk about it. My son died 2 years ago on Feb. 1. It is so hard to deal with it, even today. Just be thanhkful for what u do have and don't ever forget her. She will always come up in conversation, believe me. Just be thankful that she was not born with a birth defect, etc. and has to live with that for her entire life. Good luck with dealing with your loss. I am so sorry you have to go through this.
2007-02-13 06:14:44 · answer #4 · answered by hello_heather_03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry and feel much sad to hear that news from you. Losing a great love of a person like her is very sad to anyone. However, pray to The Great God, Allah S.W.T for the happiness of your baby sister, Olivia in the afterlife. May she be happy in her life there.
2007-02-13 05:47:09 · answer #5 · answered by Khamirul Bin Mataree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a terrible thing that has happened, I'm so sorry to hear about your family's loss. It is a very hard thing to deal with, because babies are not supposed to die! It is very frustrating and can make you angry that this has happened. When your mom is ready, there are a lot of really good message boards and grief loss websites that she might find helpful. I have collected a lot of them here:
http://pencil-portrait-drawing-artist.com/id195.html
2007-02-13 05:40:03 · answer #6 · answered by darligraphy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for your mom and let her know that you are hurting also and that you already loved this baby, the worst thing you could do is hold your feelings in. My guess write a note to her and have a memorial of your own if they don't have one.
2007-02-13 05:42:45 · answer #7 · answered by neicee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Megan that would pretty much kill your life because your family would be miserable and then when you get older you wouldnt get the chance to be a role model or have some1 to play with or just some1 to talk your feelings with so that could seriously hurt badly.Im close to my sister and were best buds for life so if your an only child or some1 that is lonely you could have a best bud for life too.....You should love her and care for her like she would for you.Give her a chance and DONT give up on her EVER.The more helpful and caring you are the more love you wil get and soon your sister could brag on how cool you are.Im proud to help you!Cya!
2007-02-13 05:42:46 · answer #8 · answered by Thomas28 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I am so sorry this happened to your family. It's okay to be very sad and to grieve as long as you want/need to. You have suffered a great loss. Be there for eachother. You will get through this.
2007-02-13 05:35:09 · answer #9 · answered by gracemaddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sorry to hear of this sad event. Your mom really needs you to help her through this, and it will be hard. Best thing is to talk about how you feel and invite your mother to talk about her feelings too. I hope for peace and strength for both of you.
2007-02-13 05:36:25 · answer #10 · answered by oldyogi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋