i'm in 11th grade and at my school there is this teacher who doesn't even teach me but he acts really wierd with me. Hes like the strictest teacher in the school to everyone but me. Once he took a photo of me and started going on about how much he LIKED it, i mean it was just a pic of me playing with my hair. Another time i was in his room for some reason and he just came out with 'fancy a job rosa' and winked at me, then a few days later he was shouting at some kids and came up to me after and said 'i'm not mean, well i'm not mean to you because i know you like and i'm nice to you, you've seen my nice side ' and winked at me yet again. Whenever i walk past he has to have some degree of eye contact with me and whenever i talk to him he always touches me on the arm or shoulder. Its only me hes like this with, why am i been singled out like this? and now hes asking for me to do lunchbreak catch up sessions with him and asked noone else who hes doesn't teach only me. is he infatuated?
2007-02-13 05:27:34 · 12 answers · asked by Rosa-Aria D 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
Go now, log off, and go to a teacher/administrator preferably your guidance counselor whom you trust and share the tale above. His behavior is inappropriate and needs to be addressed immediately. Someone like this begins to believe if there is not an obvious STOP IT CREEP message from you, that you are receptive to his advances. He doesn't take into account his authority as a teacher &/or age difference may prevent someone your age from reacting strongly. That's why there are laws to protect you minors.
2007-02-13 05:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by gon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've asked this question 12 times now... As it is worrying you that much then you really need to talk to someone responsible at the school... are there any school counsellors or doctor/nurse you can talk to who can discretely do something about it?
maybe a tutor or another teacher that you can speak to... you need to say something to someone NOW so they can make an official acknowledgement that you are worried about it...and something can be done.
If you don't you may be putting yourself at risk and it may seem like you are encouraging it to happen.... at least if you have made a report then you can prove that you are not misleading him.
I know that sounds quite harsh but when incidents do happen then the first thing you need to do is prove that you did not invite it to happen.... asking questions on here is not enough, you must talk to someone who knows you both and can do something to help.
I really hope it works out but you really need to stop talking about it and start taking action.
Good luck :)
2007-02-13 05:55:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 20:29:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like everyone else says, you need to report him to the school guidance counsellor, or principal, or some other responsible adult. He has not crossed the line yet (except with touching your arms or shoulders) but if you meet him for lunch study breaks, who knows what sort of situation you could find yourself in. He may be acting like this with other students or he may have something on his record that you are not already aware of. His supervisors need to know about this. Report him!
2007-02-13 07:59:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very dangerous man and you must go to your parents immediately. They need to call the principal or guidance counselor today; and, under no circumstances, are you to go near that man. Legally, teachers are not allowed to touch, make suggestive comments or looks. You are entitled to a free public education in a SAFE environment. Right now, he is invading your space and making you feel uncomfortable. He's breaking the law.
I can't stress how important it is for you to go and tell someone!
2007-02-13 05:38:47 · answer #5 · answered by Sciencemom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It must really suck to be a teacher in these times. Obviously, no one condones behavior like your teacher may be exhibiting. However, I hope you are really certain that he is an oddball otherwise you may ruin the career of a decent individual.
2007-02-13 05:36:59 · answer #6 · answered by monkey tuesday 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's wrong, it's making you uncomfortable enough to come here to Yahoo Answers to ask about it, so it's wrong. Trust your intuition and have the self esteem to make this stop now.
2007-02-13 05:35:48 · answer #7 · answered by darligraphy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are making this up, don't go there as you can ruin the man's life, That is no joke. If you are not making it up, go talk to your school counselor and tell her what you said here.
2007-02-13 06:25:21 · answer #8 · answered by greenfrogs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teachers are human beings you know? he seems to like you.It is either he is not bold enough to tell you or he is afraid of what your reaction might be. but do you like him? then give him a chance, first to be your friend, then you can walk away if what he wants is more than you can give.
2007-02-13 05:38:18 · answer #9 · answered by oluwatobi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he love u but he is old for u come to me. i'm year 11too
2007-02-13 22:05:32 · answer #10 · answered by kajally d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋