do you respect of who we actually are........or is it that your one too but it's hard to accept who you are.......how can i accept myself
2007-02-13 05:25:14 · 11 answers · asked by smiley 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
hi hon,
your sexuality and sexual orientation is just one small part of you.. it's ok to be confused. don't be in a rush to label or judge yourself.
at the same time, never forget all your other accomplishments in life.. family, friends, relationships, school, work, sports, hobbies.. everything you have done in your life are things you can be proud of. use these as a foundation to feel good about yourself... never forget you are a great person and you have a great life ahead..
2007-02-13 06:42:49 · answer #1 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easy when you throw out the religion. Pick the good stuff from religion, self help books, science reports, etc, and throw out the rest. Love yourself. We with all of our qualities are perfect reflections of God. Know that you don't have to change a thing and are just fine the way you are. It takes a little work and time to build up your arsenal but you will and eventually you will accept yourself! Be gentle to yourself in the meantime! Peace!
2007-02-13 05:56:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question you should ask is the last one, how can you accept yourself? When it all comes down to it, accepting yourself and who you are can lead to two outcomes, either you are pleased with yourself or you find things that need to change. If you are pleased, you have accepted yourself. If you feel you need to change, then you need to understand why you feel that change is necessary and if so, how best to go about it. Respect is about self-esteem, and self-esteem comes from knowing yourself enough to say you are happy with yourself. Not that you are satisfied where you are in life, but that you can find happiness in it at the current time, and are willing to look at what you have to change to experience more happiness.
2007-02-13 09:58:01 · answer #3 · answered by sapphire 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've got been with 2 women. the 1st became my first, and the 2nd became after my first guy broke my coronary heart. i theory i'd desire to by some ability circulate lower back. did no longer paintings. i like lots of girls persons. discover them appealing, appealing, components of my physique get better than happy. yet for a genuine relationship it ought to be a guy. there is an inner peace i discover with men that i'm able to't get with women persons. can no longer clarify it, that is purely how this is.
2016-09-29 01:39:22 · answer #4 · answered by schenecker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try to love all people regardless of there sexual orientation, but I do think that gay, and bi-sexual people are more than a little confused. It is pretty obvious just looking at nature that Gods plan intended for couples to be male and female.
2007-02-13 05:31:57 · answer #5 · answered by p_doell 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I respect people that keep their private lives private unless it is a topic of conversation. If a coworker or friend starts telling me their sexual interests without it being topical, I'll think they are desperate for attention.
That may say like I am telling people to stay in the closet, but I am not. I'm saying that you don't need to impose your need for validation on people who don't really want to know. Talk about it with people who care about you to begin with.
2007-02-13 05:37:41 · answer #6 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I respect everyone no matter who they are (if they are gay or straight) Now its totally different if that individual intends to get hostile...other than that I'm very friendly and kind
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2007-02-13 05:35:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have nothing but respect for "gay" people. They are brave souls..and those that have issues with them, are just uncomforatble in their own skin.
2007-02-13 05:30:02 · answer #8 · answered by Bevin M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hey i dont really care if thier gay or bi so long as thier my friends and dont fall for me lol but they're cool..i guess its thier choice so it shouldnt bother anybody.its thier life aint it? i respect for them
2007-02-13 05:36:27 · answer #9 · answered by ♥D@t_bLaSiaN♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I accepet who you are so just be yourself
2007-02-13 05:31:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋