My boyfriend of five years got a picture in his phone from his best friend showing some girl in her underwear. when i asked him about it he said he meant to discard it and that it didn't mean anything. i was mad because he would try and hide it from me (if it didn't mean anything) should i be mad or just forget it, or is there others things that he's hiding from me.
2007-02-13 05:23:56 · 14 answers · asked by Tea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dear Tea, perhaps that isn't the only thing he has been hiding from you. Break up with him. Leave him and refuse any connection with him any longer. Better alone that alongside "friends" like him.
2007-02-13 05:29:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Well, boys will be boys. I guess it depends how old he is. BUT, if he doesn't want YOU to have pics of a guy in his underwear in YOUR phone, then he shouldn't either. It should work both ways. If you don't care to have anything like that in your phone , you shouldn't. However, even tho' we are all usually attracted or a bit curious of these pictures, I think it is disrespectful to you. Apparently he knows that you look on his cell, so he knew you would see this. I myself have been married for 20 something years and I consider my husbands cell private.He doesn't look on mine either. We just trust each other. Yeah, it would hurt my feelings for sure but if I saw something like this he would just let me look at it then take it off. Nothing else would be said. He would know that it hurt my feelings, and if he cared enough he wouldn't do that again. A word to the wise, don't go looking for things. What you don't know, wont hurt you. Try and not make a big deal of this. But if he cares a lot about you , he will try and make you happy.
2007-02-13 13:36:55 · answer #2 · answered by La Cicada 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hahah if its a model no because how can you blame him. Now if its Michelle from down the street, thats a different story. Either way its just a picture, if you are going to get so caught up in something simple like that, man you are going to have a rough time in life and relationships.
2007-02-13 13:31:57 · answer #3 · answered by Big D 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my bloke had a pic of a girl standing at a bar with a short skirt on her legs were so long they were freeky i went mad because this was a real person if you know wot i mean if it had bee some modle that would of been different i never spoke to him 4 days. later that year he was txtin her behind my back needless 2 say hes history. dont trust him but i guess im a little bitter, good luck
2007-02-13 13:37:19 · answer #4 · answered by showmethemoneygolddigger 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should understand that all men do that. Your boyfriend is just being a normal male. For you to get upset about it would be goofy. Just let it go and move on. Thank you.
2007-02-13 13:37:51 · answer #5 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your relationship is going smoothly, I would just forget about it. My best friend's husband is constantly getting and sending those things. It's a joke amongst us when we all go out. Just tell him that you don't care that he gets them or even sends them, just don't hide it from you. That's what makes people suspicious to begin with.
2007-02-13 13:35:49 · answer #6 · answered by sher2003bear 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's probably just a perv... like every other guy on the planet. And, like every other guy on the planet, he's lying if he said he "meant to discard it"... no, he was hoping you wouldn't see it. Assuming it really did come from his best friend, you probably have nothing to worry about.
2007-02-13 13:36:13 · answer #7 · answered by kena2mi 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would go hunting if i were you!! sneak around find out more!!! what you need to do is get his friend to tell you all about it!!! well though it sounds good do you really wanna ruin your relationship i would just let it go boys will be boys my husband watches dirty shows with his friends and talks about it hell i don't care let him do whatever as long as i don't have too!!! lol Good Luck if you push it to hard you might lose him!
2007-02-13 13:31:17 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget about it. Don't stop trusting him because of something so trivial. All he did was receive a picture. He didn't take it, and he told you it didn't mean anything.
2007-02-13 13:28:47 · answer #9 · answered by LP 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats men for ya!!
its what they do... their mates send them stupid things, it means nothing to them, but he had no control over his mate sending him it, his only fault was that he kept it on his phone the doughnut!!!
yes he should tell you about these things, but then again he prolly thought nothing of it and didnt see it as something worth bothering you about!
if on the other hand the nakid girl herself had sent the pic... then i would of ripped him apart!!!
2007-02-13 13:31:15 · answer #10 · answered by merrpet 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋